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Old 05-17-2008, 07:42 PM
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Is the UPC a Den of Incest (Growth Within)?

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Before I left the UPC, I was rising in the ranks primarily because I had an influential pastor and could preach "fearful" obedience and standards messages!

The UPC, IMO, is an "incestuous" organization. What I mean by that is that it primarily multiplies from within and not without.



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Old 05-17-2008, 07:46 PM
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Re: Is the UPC a Den of Incest?

I can agree. The UPCI seems only to grow by family, not by conversion.
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Old 05-17-2008, 07:47 PM
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I am glad he left?
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Old 05-17-2008, 07:56 PM
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Re: Is the UPC a Den of Incest?

I can't speak for all UPC churches because I don't know enough about any of them to say. But I can speak for the one UPC church that I grew up in in the beginning of my walk.

Back when I first started going there, we were adding people to the church all the time. Outsiders. People who had never even heard of Pentecost and were thrilled to be a part of this "new thing".

Then our pastor left to go to the mission field. (Please do not think I am saying he was wrong to go!!!! Absolutely NOT!! He was following God's call for his life!). After he left, this church had a pastor who would easily fit into the "abuser" category that I hear talked about on here, unfortunately. He was only there for a year but during that time the vast majority of the people left.

Since that time, this church has not added one single soul who came in from the world. They've had a few people come from other UPC churches. And most of those people eventually ended up going back to the the UPC churches they had started at.

Right now this church is running about 30-40 people on a good Sunday.

So what do I think? hmmmm. I think there might be some merit to what MOW has said. I'm not sure if it applies to EVERY UPC church, but it surely does to some.

On the other hand, I know churches from other denominations that are in the same condition. So it's not exclusively UPC.
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Old 05-17-2008, 08:02 PM
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Re: Is the UPC a Den of Incest?

Unfair charge I think.

In a ten year period, the UPC would certainly have a greater percentile of new converts than any of the older mainstream (non-Pentecostal) denominations. In fact many if not most denominations are shrinking in size.
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Old 05-17-2008, 08:05 PM
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Re: Is the UPC a Den of Incest?

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I can't speak for all UPC churches because I don't know enough about any of them to say. But I can speak for the one UPC church that I grew up in in the beginning of my walk.

Back when I first started going there, we were adding people to the church all the time. Outsiders. People who had never even heard of Pentecost and were thrilled to be a part of this "new thing".

Then our pastor left to go to the mission field. (Please do not think I am saying he was wrong to go!!!! Absolutely NOT!! He was following God's call for his life!). After he left, this church had a pastor who would easily fit into the "abuser" category that I hear talked about on here, unfortunately. He was only there for a year but during that time the vast majority of the people left.

Since that time, this church has not added one single soul who came in from the world. They've had a few people come from other UPC churches. And most of those people eventually ended up going back to the the UPC churches they had started at.

Right now this church is running about 30-40 people on a good Sunday.

So what do I think? hmmmm. I think there might be some merit to what MOW has said. I'm not sure if it applies to EVERY UPC church, but it surely does to some.

On the other hand, I know churches from other denominations that are in the same condition. So it's not exclusively UPC.
I don't think we can use that same broad brush to paint all churches. Some churches actively pursue the lost and people come from all backgrounds, get saved, and become part of the church. Other churches become ingrown. Any officers are members of the pastor's family and are therefore not independent thinkers but just "yes-men." The Church is run like a family business or family cash cow and office of pastor is passed on down from father to son or perhaps to son-in-law. "Sinners" are not welcome but are browbeaten and shunned. Any "new" folks come from other Oneness churches or perhaps people from other denominations who "see the light."

I don't know about the organization as a whole or individual districts. I would imagine some districts are "good old boys" networks and any promotion to office would be based on nepotism and politics. I sure can't say this is the way the whole organization or all the districts are. My knowledge is very limited when it comes to religious politics.
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Re: Is the UPC a Den of Incest?

I think it depends on your church and your pastor. I am concerned about the handing down from father to son ministerial postions within churches. It strikes me as kingdom building and I do not think it is healthy or God's plan for the church.
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It is a fact that the UPC has not grown within the USA very much over the last 10 to 20 years. However, there are churches that cannot be thrown into that category. The church i am attending in Springfield has people receiving the HG and being baptized every week. Wednesday night 12 were baptized in Jesus name. I have only been there since January and have been impressed.

I am sure there are many more that are growing. But the org as a whole has not been growing. That is why a new church growth campaign has been launched recently called global impact.

The fact is, the churches that are willing to change and step out of the box will see souls saved. I personally believe it starts by trying to stop growing churches and personal kingdoms and by trying instead to grow people.

For so long we have tried to bring people in and convert them to a culture instead of going out and leading them to a savior. JMHO
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I don't think we can use that same broad brush to paint all churches. Some churches actively pursue the lost and people come from all backgrounds, get saved, and become part of the church. Other churches become ingrown. Any officers are members of the pastor's family and are therefore not independent thinkers but just "yes-men." The Church is run like a family business or family cash cow and office of pastor is passed on down from father to son or perhaps to son-in-law. "Sinners" are not welcome but are browbeaten and shunned. Any "new" folks come from other Oneness churches or perhaps people from other denominations who "see the light."

I don't know about the organization as a whole or individual districts. I would imagine some districts are "good old boys" networks and any promotion to office would be based on nepotism and politics. I sure can't say this is the way the whole organization or all the districts are. My knowledge is very limited when it comes to religious politics.
I wholeheartedly agree, Sam. I don't think we can use that same broad brush to paint all churches within the UPC either. That was my point exactly. I'm sure that there are churches that really are self-contained and self-consumed. I'm not sure I like the term "incestuous". Don't know why, but it really makes me uncomfortable to use that term. But I do know that there are churches (like the one I came from) where they are very happy just being "us four and no more".

But again, I want to say this loud and clear - this is NOT only happening in the UPC. I know of many, many other churches from many, many other denominations that are in the same boat.

Frankly, sometimes I think that one reason the so-called "seeker friendly" churches grow like they do is because they started from the ground up. So there's no little clique already there to say to people, "if you don't measure up to our standards, you won't really want to stay here". No, I know that's not actually said out loud. But people feel it, believe me. I know that I feel it every time I visit my old church today.
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It is a fact that the UPC has not grown within the USA very much over the last 10 to 20 years. However, there are churches that cannot be thrown into that category. The church i am attending in Springfield has people receiving the HG and being baptized every week. Wednesday night 12 were baptized in Jesus name. I have only been there since January and have been impressed.

I am sure there are many more that are growing. But the org as a whole has not been growing. That is why a new church growth campaign has been launched recently called global impact.

The fact is, the churches that are willing to change and step out of the box will see souls saved. I personally believe it starts by trying to stop growing churches and personal kingdoms and by trying instead to grow people.

For so long we have tried to bring people in and convert them to a culture instead of going out and leading them to a savior. JMHO

VB, your point is well taken, but still does not mean there isn't new blood in the organization. The activity through the back door is further evidence of this.


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