A Recipe for Disaster... Marriage Issues...

revrandy · #1 06-08-2007, 01:50 PM

I applaud the removal of a recent thread concerning marriage issues!!

I think that this forum has been a safer place then most when it comes to knowing folks and making friends. That being said we as posters and guests here should use good judgement when discussing our personal lives and be careful of what we post.

I am not critisizing recent post's at all... just a word of caution because situations as these can be a recipe for disaster not just effecting us here but a person's personal life as well...

Sometimes Sympathy can turn into some deeper and become a major issue that can be a disaster for all involved....

I can appreciate the fact that there are wonderful people here who care when we are hurt or pray with us about situations that arise and we can share what we are going thru but also understanding that there are certains lines that can be crossed innocently at first glance but morphing into something way beyond what is or should be acceptable here.

Just a word of careful consideration and caution for all involved...

I appreciate this forum and all who post here but I also want to make sure I remain ethical at all times while doing so and know others feel the same...

Just a thought...

#2 06-08-2007, 01:54 PM

I hope you're not supposing we should just pretend everything's honkey dorey and nothing is wrong, Randy?

Rico · #3 06-08-2007, 01:55 PM

I just noticed Sister T's thread is not here. Is that the one you are talking about? Maybe she decided to ask if it could be taken off or something.

revrandy · #4 06-08-2007, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Ronzo

I hope you're not supposing we should just pretend everything's honkey dorey and nothing is wrong, Randy?

Not at all...

But I do think that the lines of sympathy and care can be crossed if we are not using good judgement by folks who are experiancing the same things.. concerning relationship and marriage...

just a cautionary thought..

#5 06-08-2007, 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ronzo

I hope you're not supposing we should just pretend everything's honkey dorey and nothing is wrong, Randy?

That's right just go back to sleep~.....

#6 06-08-2007, 01:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by revrandy

Not at all...

But I do think that the lines of sympathy and care can be crossed if we are not using good judgement by folks who are experiancing the same things.. concerning relationship and marriage...

just a cautionary thought..

So who do you suppose was not using good judgement?

#7 06-08-2007, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by CupCake

That's right just go back to sleep~.....

I wish I could sometimes... and wake up and it all be just a horrible nightmare.

SDG · #8 06-08-2007, 02:00 PM

#9 06-08-2007, 02:07 PM

What the problem with allowing adults to decide what is right or wrong on their own, and hear from different view points, must we have a babysitter ????

Honestly if little Billy drinks tainted KoolAid , I won't follow his lead.......I really think many here don't give the membership here much credit at shorting through the garbage and taken what's good. Hmmmmmm

revrandy · #10 06-08-2007, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by CupCake

What the problem with allowing adults to decide what is right or wrong on their own, and hear from different view points, must we have a babysitter ????

Honestly if little Billy drinks tainted KoolAid , I won't follow his lead.......I really think many here don't give the membership here much credit at shorting through the garbage and taken what's good. Hmmmmmm

Sounds like an adult....