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Originally Posted by odooley6985
No one commented or answered my question. What non biblical reason is there to ban gay marriage? Can we come up with one without mentioning one religious word? Until then, gay marriage wont be struck down. At least abortion is murder.
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Some would say that gay marriages can't produce children, and say such marriages should therefore not be allowed.
Very weak argument, of course, since many straight marriage either can't or won't (by choice) produce children, either.
And some say gay parents (e.g., by adoption) are bad parents. A child needs a male father and a female mother. Again, very weak. There are a lot of very fine one-parent families, and a lot of really,
really dysfunctional straight parents.
Now, a strangely convoluted argument has been put forth by someone I admire and respect (an AFFer), but I'm not sure he's made the argument here or not, so I won't name him. But his argument goes like this: the government issues marriage licenses for the purpose of preventing risky pregnancies, such as between closely related people. A brother and sister, e.g., would be denied a license. A gay marriage doesn't have that danger, and therefore (here's the convoluted part) there is no need to license gay marriages at all. He seems to think this means there is no reason for the government to recognize gay marriages -- that a civil union, without license, is good enough. The trouble with this is that is it actually a very good argument in
favor of allowing and licensing gay marriage! ("Trouble" if you are against it, that is.

) If a license (or denial thereof) is for the purpose of preventing risky pregnancies, then there is
no reason not to issue a gay marriage license.
Now, I've saved the best for last. The National Organization For Marriage has provided the anti-gay-marriage folks with the most, um, "interesting" reason I have ever seen. And it is, in a way, the most honest.

Here it is, from their
"talking points" web page:
4. What’s the harm from SSM? “How can Adam and Steve hurt your marriage?”
A: “Who gets harmed? The people of this state who lose our right to define marriage as the union of husband and wife, that’s who. That is just not right.”
There you have it! Who would get "hurt" if gay marriage is allowed? The people who are against gay marriage!