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Originally Posted by 1399
The Man of God can be a mentor-- in fact, in order for him to mentor a soul, that soul must be able to submit. That soul should see in his/her Pastor a love that makes submission possible.
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Amen to that!
And because a shepherd/watchmen loves his sheep, when he sees danger coming or the sheep is straying, he will correct them. Not because he is in a place of power and authority and wants to show off that he is, but because he loves that sheep and knows that if that sheep continues what he is doing, it will result in harm or something worse.
Thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
What is the purpose of the rod? Correction.
Sometimes when you try to correct someone because you love them and you give them space to change and they don't or they don't receive one's loving correction; then it is time to toughen that love up a bit.
I personally believe that correction should start out with love and the spirit of meekness first. If that does not work, then we have examples from Paul where he took it up a notch...
1Co 4:17 For this cause have I sent unto you Timotheus, who is my beloved son, and faithful in the Lord, who shall bring you into remembrance of my ways which be in Christ, as I teach every where in every church.
1Co 4:18 Now some are puffed up, as though I would not come to you.
1Co 4:19 But I will come to you shortly, if the Lord will, and will know, not the speech of them which are puffed up, but the power.
1Co 4:20 For the kingdom of God is not in word, but in power.
1Co 4:21 What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?
Paul's ways were in Christ and his ways he taught in every church.
There is a time and a place for love and the spirit of meekness, but there is also a time for the rod. Taking the rod out is taking correction up a notch when some don't receive instruction/correction in love and in the spirit of meekness.
Paul even wrote about taking it up a notch even further...
2Co 12:20 For I fear, lest, when I come, I shall not find you such as I would, and that I shall be found unto you such as ye would not: lest there be debates, envyings, wraths, strifes, backbitings, whisperings, swellings, tumults:
2Co 12:21 And lest, when I come again, my God will humble me among you, and that I shall bewail many which have sinned already, and have not repented of the uncleanness and fornication and lasciviousness which they have committed.
The attitude of the world is not to correct children with the rod anymore. Could it be that that same attitude had crept into some churches, where the Pastor is afraid to reprove and rebuke and correct with all longsuffering and doctrine?
Pro 13:24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
A father that spares his rod hates his son. A man of God called of God to Pastor a church who is annointed of God will correct his sheep if they need it. If he doesn't then there is something seriously wrong with that Pastor.
Pro 9:8 Reprove not a scorner, lest he hate thee: rebuke a wise man, and he will love thee.
Reproving and rebuking is where we can tell the attitude from the one who is corrected. A scorner will hate you, but a wise man will love you.
Pro 15:10 Correction is grievous unto him that forsaketh the way: and he that hateth reproof shall die.
Psa 141:5 Let the righteous smite me; it shall be a kindness: and let him reprove me; it shall be an excellent oil, which shall not break my head: for yet my prayer also shall be in their calamities.