Living Arrangements

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

LOL. You take away all the fun! BTW - Guys think they are so irresisitable and they fool themselves. Every woman likes different things and if a man don't turn me on...he just don't and it is very easy to say "No", but then again...if he does turn me on...let's hope both of us are prayed up

Okay, I can totally agree with this post!!!!!

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

So it could be difficult for you to say "no" you are saying......see, girl you change with the wind!

Nope, what I am saying is I would like to be tempted...it has been quite a while since I wanted to cuddle with anyone. I can still say no - until he puts that ring on my finger

[Emma Bontrager]

Yow!! Just talking about this on this thread and I'm ready for my husband to get home. You singles will have to work this out all on your own.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5PKULglde8

[MissBrattified]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

LOL. You take away all the fun! BTW - Guys think they are so irresistible and they fool themselves. Every woman likes different things and if a man don't turn me on...he just don't and it is very easy to say "No", but then again...if he does turn me on...let's hope both of us are prayed up

If a man is your "lover", I would think he would also be a man who turns you on? In which case, it might be a good idea to not cuddle with him on the couch, for his sake if not yours.

Men can and should control themselves, just like women. But women shouldn't take whatever they want with no consideration for a man's feelings, knowing that they aren't going to give him what he might think he's going to get. Or hope.

I know that women can be perfectly happy with a "cuddle", but that same "cuddle" to a man is a "tease." Ergo, it's not fair to tease a man just to get your cuddles in.

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

Okay, I can totally agree with this post!!!!!

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

Nope, what I am saying is I would like to be tempted...it has been quite a while since I wanted to cuddle with anyone. I can still say no - until he puts that ring on my finger

In keeping with the confusing on this thread, you might want to clarify which ring that is -- the engagement ring or the wedding band!

[Scott Hutchinson]

What did Paul say it would better to be married that to burn ?
Them human chemical factory fires do erupt.

[Emma Bontrager]

Originally Posted by mizpeh

What world do you live in?

Um. I'm not sure.

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by MissBrattified

If a man is your "lover", I would think he would also be a man who turns you on? In which case, it might be a good idea to not cuddle with him on the couch, for his sake if not yours.

Men can and should control themselves, just like women. But women shouldn't take whatever they want with no consideration for a man's feelings, knowing that they aren't going to give him what he might think he's going to get. Or hope.

I know that women can be perfectly happy with a "cuddle", but that same "cuddle" to a man is a "tease." Ergo, it's not fair to tease a man just to get your cuddles in.

"tease" yes, that is only fair you see. A girl has to get her cuddles in. Once you are married they lead to ...you know...

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by MissBrattified

If a man is your "lover", I would think he would also be a man who turns you on? In which case, it might be a good idea to not cuddle with him on the couch, for his sake if not yours.

Men can and should control themselves, just like women. But women shouldn't take whatever they want with no consideration for a man's feelings, knowing that they aren't going to give him what he might think he's going to get. Or hope.

I know that women can be perfectly happy with a "cuddle", but that same "cuddle" to a man is a "tease." Ergo, it's not fair to tease a man just to get your cuddles in.

Who in the world just teases for a cuddle?