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06-08-2007, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by revrandy
I don't know... I'm not Admin... but whether she asked it removed or admin removed it.... imo it was going some places it shouldn't ....
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How so?
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06-08-2007, 02:17 PM
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His Eminance, High Potatohead Potatotate
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Originally Posted by Ronzo
How so?
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Even she realized she said some things she shouldn't have and removed them...
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06-08-2007, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by revrandy
I agree..Rico..
and I'm not critisizing anybody.. it's just a cautionary note... I think that when two members of the opposite sex are communicating the same hurts and pains concerning their relationship whether Christian or not and the other spouse is not involved it could (future tense) become trouble...
I'm NOT saying anybody here is doing it...
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I accept the cautionary concerns ... but this is an open forum .... this discussion was done in plain site ... of everyone .....
we have discussed many "touchy" subjects ... multiple perspectives are good, necessary and healthy... I have huge problems when folks start "pastoring" the rest of us ...
The rule of thumb has always been this is a self-moderating forum ... if you don't like the thread don't visit ...
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06-08-2007, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted by revrandy
Even she realized she said some things she shouldn't have and removed them...
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She willfully removed them.
But how does that translate into the thread going somewhere it shouldn't?
I saw nothing inappropriate said by anyone.
Are my eyes not as good as yours?
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06-08-2007, 02:20 PM
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Invisible Thad
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Originally Posted by revrandy
I don't know... I'm not Admin... but whether she asked it removed or admin removed it.... imo it was going some places it shouldn't ....
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I HATE That !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!
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06-08-2007, 02:20 PM
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Shaking the dust off my shoes.
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Originally Posted by revrandy
I agree..Rico..
and I'm not critisizing anybody.. it's just a cautionary note... I think that when two members of the opposite sex are communicating the same hurts and pains concerning their relationship whether Christian or not and the other spouse is not involved it could (future tense) become trouble...
I'm NOT saying anybody here is doing it...
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Right. I agree with you except for one thing. As long as the communications are in the open forum, and not in private I don't have a problem with people of the opposite sex discussing their situations with each other. Going private is where the danger lies. I wanted to PM Sis T., and didn't, just because I am male and married. That's why I suggested maybe she could get a group of the women folk around here to talk with via pm or maybe Yahoo. That way, she could get things off her chest without it having to be out there for everyone to read. With that said, I felt like the thread was going fine and people were offering help. When things started getting detailed she realized it herself and changed the post. It shows me that she is dealing with this in the right way.
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06-08-2007, 02:22 PM
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I pm'd her to simply say I am praying for and with her.Sometimes those are words enough.
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06-08-2007, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Rico
Right. I agree with you except for one thing. As long as the communications are in the open forum, and not in private I don't have a problem with people of the opposite sex discussing their situations with each other. Going private is where the danger lies. I wanted to PM Sis T., and didn't, just because I am male and married. That's why I suggested maybe she could get a group of the women folk around here to talk with via pm or maybe Yahoo. That way, she could get things off her chest without it having to be out there for everyone to read. With that said, I felt like the thread was going fine and people were offering help. When things started getting detailed she realized it herself and changed the post. It shows me that she is dealing with this in the right way.
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Sound perspective. Refreshing.
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06-08-2007, 02:26 PM
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His Eminance, High Potatohead Potatotate
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Originally Posted by Rico
Right. I agree with you except for one thing. As long as the communications are in the open forum, and not in private I don't have a problem with people of the opposite sex discussing their situations with each other. Going private is where the danger lies. I wanted to PM Sis T., and didn't, just because I am male and married. That's why I suggested maybe she could get a group of the women folk around here to talk with via pm or maybe Yahoo. That way, she could get things off her chest without it having to be out there for everyone to read. With that said, I felt like the thread was going fine and people were offering help. When things started getting detailed she realized it herself and changed the post. It shows me that she is dealing with this in the right way.
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I completely agreed with your suggestion...
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06-08-2007, 02:30 PM
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Shaking the dust off my shoes.
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Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea
Sound perspective. Refreshing.
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I know. I've been making so much sense the last couple of days I am starting to scare myself! 
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