Apostolic Friends Forum
Tab Menu 1
Go Back   Apostolic Friends Forum > The Fellowship Hall > Fellowship Hall
Facebook

Notices

Fellowship Hall The place to go for Fellowship & Fun!


Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 11-15-2012, 11:39 AM
Evenuntodeath's Avatar
Evenuntodeath Evenuntodeath is offline
Life=Coin. Spend wisely


 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Near Boston
Posts: 178
In light of the incident at TPC...

There seems to be a pattern of those who pastor at large or mega churches getting ahead of themselves and falling into some type of scandal.

Why are pastors of large or mega churches always falling into sin? I really think there should be some kind of limit placed on the numbers of members per church. Once the church reaches that limit, then a new church should be started. Also I really think all pastors should be placed on a fixed salary. Just look at the apostles. Did any of them live lavishly? Did any of them pastors thousands of people? What do you think?
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 11-15-2012, 11:44 AM
commonsense's Avatar
commonsense commonsense is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: following the lewis and clark trail
Posts: 2,476
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

Wouldn't be accepted by the "ministry", but good material for discussion!
__________________
"Le sens commun n'est pas si commun."
(Common sense is not so common.)
Voltaire

Common sense is genius dressed in working clothes.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing.
William James
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 11-15-2012, 11:57 AM
Evenuntodeath's Avatar
Evenuntodeath Evenuntodeath is offline
Life=Coin. Spend wisely


 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Near Boston
Posts: 178
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

Quote:
Originally Posted by commonsense View Post
Wouldn't be accepted by the "ministry", but good material for discussion!
Why wouldn't it be accepted?? I mean UPC already has a bunch of other standards people accept and follow, why not this one?
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 11-15-2012, 12:08 PM
commonsense's Avatar
commonsense commonsense is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: following the lewis and clark trail
Posts: 2,476
Cool Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

The "ministry" would not want to be controlled ; it's a power thing!
__________________
"Le sens commun n'est pas si commun."
(Common sense is not so common.)
Voltaire

Common sense is genius dressed in working clothes.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing.
William James
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 11-15-2012, 12:49 PM
returnman returnman is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 474
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

I think you would be challenged on your overall claim here. There are probably just as many or more pastors that have fallen into similar scandals. We usually only hear about the big churches however.
That doesn't negate the idea of a church branching out as it grows. Your comment on fixed incomes is just plain common sense and the NT order. Most problems have to do with the governing structure in the majority of churches. It was never intended for one man, pastor/preachher to have that kind of rule over saints. The westernized world likes a "rock star" personality and to feel entertained.
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 11-15-2012, 12:50 PM
RandyWayne RandyWayne is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: AZ
Posts: 16,746
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

Quote:
Originally Posted by commonsense View Post
The "ministry" would not want to be controlled ; it's a power thing!
.....that, and just as no one will take my guns, NO ONE will take the Lincoln that your average pastor drives (those who oversee churches of 300+).
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 11-15-2012, 01:21 PM
Evenuntodeath's Avatar
Evenuntodeath Evenuntodeath is offline
Life=Coin. Spend wisely


 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Near Boston
Posts: 178
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

Quote:
Originally Posted by returnman View Post
I think you would be challenged on your overall claim here. There are probably just as many or more pastors that have fallen into similar scandals. We usually only hear about the big churches however.
I do agree that pastors of big and small churches fall into sin. The scary part is, I think small churches are very vunerable to predators for the simple fact the smaller population is easier to control and they can get away with doing their dirt for years and years. Usually, the bigger the church, the more likely lawsuits and criminal charges are filed because word gets around which attracts media attention. However, I've know of small churches where there was a problem with child predators and it was never reported, this person just dissappeared, most likely to prey on other children in an unsuspecting church.

However, I hear men of god who seemed to start out with good intentions, yet as the church grows and his salary grows, he fall into some sin concerning money or adultery. This is my issue with large and mega churches. It appeared the pastor is blessed financially, but really he is being led away by greed and material things.


The bible says money is the root of all evil. Yes, God blessed people like Job financially, but I don't really thing the NT teaches that ANY christian should live in excess, or have millions of dollars at their disposal. None of the people I've seen who God allowed to prosper were blessed in excess.


Quote:
That doesn't negate the idea of a church branching out as it grows. Your comment on fixed incomes is just plain common sense and the NT order. Most problems have to do with the governing structure in the majority of churches. It was never intended for one man, pastor/preacher to have that kind of rule over saints. The westernized world likes a "rock star" personality and to feel entertained.
Exactly!
__________________

Last edited by Evenuntodeath; 11-15-2012 at 01:23 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 11-15-2012, 01:32 PM
Aquila Aquila is offline
Banned


 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 31,124
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

House churching is the answer. It's biblical, it doesn't present lavish wealth for ministry, it allows the entire body of Christ to operate in ministry, and it limits the size of the congregation to something reasonable.
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 11-15-2012, 02:03 PM
Light Light is offline
Solid 3 Stepper


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 1,802
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

Quote:
Originally Posted by RandyWayne View Post
.....that, and just as no one will take my guns, NO ONE will take the Lincoln that your average pastor drives (those who oversee churches of 300+).
Lincoln's are so yesterday.I Drive a LS 460 couldn't Stand the 2011 Lincoln. Drove it 6 mo. traded for the Lexus.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 11-15-2012, 02:09 PM
Ferd's Avatar
Ferd Ferd is offline
I remain the Petulant Chevalier


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 17,524
Re: In light of the incident at TPC...

oh good grief. really?

so a guy in a big church went sidways and now there is a "pattern"?

and we need to limit the size of a congregation?

someone needs to stop being myopic.

I have been pastored by 7 men in my life. I have been in pentecostal churches my whole life. 3 of those men ended up having moral failures. NONE of them were pastors of "large" churches.

geez.
__________________
If I do something stupid blame the Lortab!
My Countdown Counting down to: Days left till the end of the opressive Texas Summer!
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Daily game May 16 : Carveola incident dailygame Daily Game 0 05-16-2011 04:32 AM
Speaking of a God-incident......... Margies3 Fellowship Hall 0 11-09-2008 10:33 AM
Joel Osteen's Wife Sued Over Air Rage Incident CC1 The Newsroom 82 08-14-2008 02:42 PM
Disturbing Incident~Spiritual Immaturity~ Cookin-with-Stoneking Fellowship Hall 32 06-07-2008 06:21 PM
TPC - Single's Conference - Memphis rgcraig Fellowship Hall 30 06-30-2007 09:31 PM

 
User Infomation
Your Avatar

Latest Threads
- by Salome

Help Support AFF!

Advertisement




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 03:41 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.