Rejection

[The Matt]

I guess I don't take it well.
Me: Hey Sister. I was wondering if you would like to have dinner with me some time.
Sister: *blank stare*
Me: You know, me...and you...have dinner...together...
Sister: *Realization and I assume horror dawns* Oh erm uh uh Well...I'm just waiting on God's plan, you know?
External Me: Oh that's ok. I completely understand.
Internal Me:

[bbyrd009]

lol

[Titus2woman]

I turned down a date with my husband 5 times before I said yes. He was cute, he was nice, he was a good guy... I'm still not sure what my problem was but it may just have not one thing to do with you Matt...

Thankfully our mutual friends kept trying to convince us that we would be 'perfect' together. Almost 30 years later I have to say... maybe they were on to something

[The Matt]

Eh I'm not the kind of guy who can take another no. I've got the brain of a woman. *sniffles*

[Titus2woman]

Originally Posted by The Matt

Eh I'm not the kind of guy who can take another no. I've got the brain of a woman. *sniffles*

The brain of a woman is not a bad thing

Don't be sad Matt... there is a wonderful girl out there that God made just for you. Be patient

[The Matt]

But seriously, why use God as an excuse. I wish Apostolic women were brutally honest. "No brother, you are over the weight that I saw myself with in my dreams, and your face isn't quite the...how do you say, perfect "Jesus Christ's perfect image" kind of man I'm looking for." Seriously, I would have taken that better than the way it was said. Ugh. Bleh. Blah.

[The Matt]

Sorry, I just didn't want to hold that in til I murdered a gas station attendant or something.

[houston]

why are you trying to date your sister?

that was supposed to be funny. lighten up.

if your weight bothers you enough that you believe that is why you were rejected, do something about it.

as for the girl brain, i can somewot relate. you grow out of a lot of that.

[The Matt]

I'm working on it...I don't think I'm going to ask out another til my cheekbones are prominent.

[houston]

You come across as a nice young man. If I had a daughter your age I would introduce you to her.

No one will love you if you don't love yourself. Women like confident men. Don't try too hard. Be yourself.