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09-18-2007, 02:29 PM
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and a place for treed coons... 
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09-18-2007, 02:55 PM
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1. Men need to be men. They need to get and keep a job, quit two-timing their wives, and spend some time building a relationship with their kids.
2. Women need to stay home and take care of the kids, quit trying to manipulate their husbands and pastors, and develop a meek spirit.
3. Kids need to be loved and disciplined. The two are not mutually exclusive! They should see see the implementation of a consistent set of house rules that never waver.
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Are you teaching that the wife MUST not work outside of the home (in your church)? Is this part of the role reversal you complain about? Are all women who work outside the home feminist?
Is it ok to preach this at your church because you are the spiritual authority and know what is best for each home?
Are you sure its the women who have a problem with submission and not someone else having a problem with controling what is not theirs to control? Just checking... 
And before you attack me as a feminist; I will let you know that I believe my viewpoint of marriage most closely is alligned with Coonskinner. Carry on! 
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09-18-2007, 02:59 PM
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Are you teaching that the wife MUST not work outside of the home (in your church)? Is this part of the role reversal you complain about? Are all women who work outside the home feminist?
Is it ok to preach this at your church because you are the spiritual authority and know what is best for each home?
Are you sure its the women who have a problem with submission and not someone else having a problem with controling what is not theirs to control? Just checking...
And before you attack me as a feminist; I will let you know that I believe my viewpoint of marriage most closely is alligned with Coonskinner. Carry on! |
Could you explain this, please.
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Psa 19:14 Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
1Pe 5:6-7 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
Tit 3:2 To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.
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09-18-2007, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Newman
Are you teaching that the wife MUST not work outside of the home (in your church)? Is this part of the role reversal you complain about? Are all women who work outside the home feminist?
Is it ok to preach this at your church because you are the spiritual authority and know what is best for each home?
Are you sure its the women who have a problem with submission and not someone else having a problem with controling what is not theirs to control? Just checking...
And before you attack me as a feminist; I will let you know that I believe my viewpoint of marriage most closely is alligned with Coonskinner. Carry on! |
Funny the women staying home part...seems like some of the husbands I have spoke to lately do more housework when they get home...
A person I work with yesterday talked with me about his marriage...seems like he just wanted to tell someone... His wife works part-time (10 hrs a week) for the church he attends... well she is so worked...she is tired when she gets home... he does dishes, laundry, cleans the house, and cooks...
I told him... Bro.. your wife ain't tired.. she's lazy... but you know who's fault that is??? I told him it your fault... You haven't corrected the situation yet..
so until he corrects the situation it will remain...
some wives have the same problems with their husbands...they do everything while bubba does nothing... you know who's fault that is??? it's theirs because until they correct the situation... it will remain...
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09-18-2007, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Pastor Poster
1. Men need to be men. They need to get and keep a job, quit two-timing their wives, and spend some time building a relationship with their kids.
2. Women need to stay home and take care of the kids, quit trying to manipulate their husbands and pastors, and develop a meek spirit.
3. Kids need to be loved and disciplined. The two are not mutually exclusive! They should see see the implementation of a consistent set of house rules that never waver.
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Hm, this would be ideal, but is it realistic? For example, if we tell our women that their primary job is #2 above, what happens if that man does not do #1 and leaves her? Or what happens, if God forbid, he becomes disabled from an accident? We teach our women that all that matters is what they become in God, and while that's true, that does not mean they don't need an education. Yes, I realize the topic is not education, but the world has changed and while the role of the women is ideally to care for the home and children, it's just not that realistic. They need a way to be strong and in charge is tragedy strikes. Nope, I say a strong woman is an asset to the family, church, whatever. I agree that women can be catty, manipulative, gossipy, etc. I have seen a women here at my company usurp the authority of the manager. I realize that the majority of the mess that has been created here is because of that. Then it dawned on me, he let her. Who's the man around here, who's the boss?
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09-18-2007, 03:20 PM
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My wife works full time and I like her working...she works for the school district so she's out when the kids are out and so on..but it gives something to do and helps us monthly...and she likes what she does...
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09-18-2007, 03:21 PM
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My wife works full time and I like her working...she works for the school district so she's out when the kids are out and so on..but it gives something to do and helps us monthly...and she likes what she does...
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And for me personally, I am more productive when I'm busier. I don't know why that is . . Then again, I don't have a choice but to work, but if I did, I probably would, or work part time and go to school full time instead of the other way around.
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09-18-2007, 03:23 PM
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And for me personally, I am more productive when I'm busier. I don't know why that is . . Then again, I don't have a choice but to work, but if I did, I probably would, or work part time and go to school full time instead of the other way around.
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the whole point is it is your choice... I am ProChoice when it comes to work for women!!!!
My wife can work or not work.. that's up to her...
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09-18-2007, 03:23 PM
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Could you explain this, please.
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Sure. If I am a feminist because of my views about marriage; then Coonskinner is too (given that our viewpoints about the subject are more similar than not) as I see it.
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09-18-2007, 03:27 PM
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Sure. If I am a feminist because of my views about marriage; then Coonskinner is too (given that our viewpoints about the subject are more similar than not) as I see it. |
Now that's funny right thar... if you don't think that's funny... you need to call your wife and tell her that dress makes her backside look big....
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