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Originally Posted by houston
Did you even click on the link? It's an apostolic single site. I have a paid membership. Probably a waste because the women's expectations are unreal, they are not on par with what they want. AND, I am not considered a UCON or even a Moderate in Classical Pentecost.
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I never did understand why apostolic women have certain expectations out of the single men they attend church with. I mean...there are many decent, caring men who are not called to preach, but it seems that
some of the girls there only want to be married to ministers or upcoming ministers. I felt that some of the girls were just looking for glory for themselves instead of being a good helpmeet to some well deserving young men. You know, kind of wear the title of "minister's wife" on a banner over their heads?
But there are also some men who do not look past imperfections in women to ask them out.
When I was single, all I prayed for was a man who was first most - faithful to God and would be faithful to his wife (me). Hard worker who just would not quit his job out of anger. Someone generous, but not overly generous to the point of depletion. Need to handle money in context. Good father. Kind. Honest.
That is what I prayed for and God caused a man to come my way that met all these "standards" LOL.
He wasn't very confident of himself in the beginning of our relationship, but behind the curtain a very good man bloomed. We will be married 28 years this year.
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