Apostolic Friends Forum
Tab Menu 1
Go Back   Apostolic Friends Forum > The Fellowship Hall > Fellowship Hall
Facebook

Notices

Fellowship Hall The place to go for Fellowship & Fun!


Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #21  
Old 07-22-2009, 10:51 AM
U376977 U376977 is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 897
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

The pastor who does not take from the church financially hurts the whole body. People are blessed when they are givers. Period. No better way to give to the Lord than to bless his servants; apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors and teachers.
Reply With Quote
  #22  
Old 07-22-2009, 10:51 AM
tbpew's Avatar
tbpew tbpew is offline
but made himself of no reputation


 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: middle Atlantic region
Posts: 2,091
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve Epley View Post
Forget it these folks hate preachers. And could care less what the Bible says.I have paid saint's rent, made car payments, bought them clothes, carried them groceries, took them to the doctor and aoid the bill, bought tires for their cars, fixed their transmissions, drove them across states to visit their sick relatives in hospitals, ran the tires off my car visiting hospitals-nursing homes, jails, senior saint's homes to check on them when their kids didn't have the time. Sorry this pushed my button.
I am wondering....
is it an example of a 'failing example' involving a pastoral leadership position to declare that the posters at AFF hate preachers?

If hatred is resident in the heart, that person is a murderer.
Hating preachers would make a person a murderer.

A declaration of this sort is extreme and could cause little ones to stumble.

Our failing examples should consider if we are accountable for the words we use.

Could thinking that "these folks hate preachers" be an example of a heart that has bitterness toward others?
__________________
Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath [James 1:19]

Last edited by tbpew; 07-22-2009 at 10:53 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #23  
Old 07-22-2009, 10:52 AM
The Lemon The Lemon is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Maryland
Posts: 449
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

Quote:
Originally Posted by GrowingPains View Post
Uh... read them again. Look up what was intended with the world "double honor". Come on guys. You can do better than this. Reading into the text... the part about hirelings, was not about being supported by giving. Is that how you interpret that really???

Also, don't throw in 10 points to make the case of 1. For example, many of us will agree large buildings have drawbacks, but when you include that in this argument, you cloud the simpleness of what we are talking about.
UMMM.... Read my post AGAIN. I did not say or do I advocate NOT honoring or caring for the ministry......how much sense would that make when I am a licensed preacher myself????

I am thankful for true shepherds, I have sat under that, and the other - as many on this forum have. I am not a preacher hater, for crying out loud, I am one!!

I think this is just a hot button on BOTH sides, as the responses are full of animosity on both sides. Maybe we are all "reading" into this whole thread, some things about each other that are absolute speculation at best.

Just as you say that I am "reading" something into this portion of scripture...i have conversely seen this portion of scripture misrepresented on the other hand in church's as well.

Bottom line is that ministers...not JUST pastors, are worthy of double honor, and anyone benefitting from their service should help to care for them. We can't, however just ignore verse 11 just so we can stand on some soapbox and declare who is or is not a preacher hater etc.

Good grief...I'm sorry I posted on this thread.
Reply With Quote
  #24  
Old 07-22-2009, 10:52 AM
Scott Hutchinson's Avatar
Scott Hutchinson Scott Hutchinson is offline
Resident PeaceMaker


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Jackson,AL.
Posts: 16,548
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

I believe there are more caring pastors,than uncaring ones.
Don't judge something till you know the whole situation.
Ministers live in fishbowls,and they can't make everybody happy.
I'm not a pastor,but if people tried pastoring I think they would be less critical of pastors.
__________________
People who are always looking for fault,can find it easily all they have to do,is look into their mirror.
There they can find plenty of fault.
Reply With Quote
  #25  
Old 07-22-2009, 10:55 AM
GrowingPains GrowingPains is offline
Guest


 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 873
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

Quote:
Originally Posted by The Lemon View Post
UMMM.... Read my post AGAIN. I did not say or do I advocate NOT honoring or caring for the ministry......how much sense would that make when I am a licensed preacher myself????

I am thankful for true shepherds, I have sat under that, and the other - as many on this forum have. I am not a preacher hater, for crying out loud, I am one!!

I think this is just a hot button on BOTH sides, as the responses are full of animosity on both sides. Maybe we are all "reading" into this whole thread, some things about each other that are absolute speculation at best.

Just as you say that I am "reading" something into this portion of scripture...i have conversely seen this portion of scripture misrepresented on the other hand in church's as well.

Bottom line is that ministers...not JUST pastors, are worthy of double honor, and anyone benefitting from their service should help to care for them. We can't, however just ignore verse 11 just so we can stand on some soapbox and declare who is or is not a preacher hater etc.

Good grief...I'm sorry I posted on this thread.
I haven't called anyone a "preacher hater." I'm suggesting the text was used incorrectly, in light of all the other scriptures on the same subject.
Reply With Quote
  #26  
Old 07-22-2009, 11:03 AM
Scott Hutchinson's Avatar
Scott Hutchinson Scott Hutchinson is offline
Resident PeaceMaker


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Jackson,AL.
Posts: 16,548
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

I don't think anybody here is a pastor hater.
I don't feel though it's a sin to disagree with a pastor,as pastors are human too.
But to hate something that God has ordained like pastoring would be insane.
__________________
People who are always looking for fault,can find it easily all they have to do,is look into their mirror.
There they can find plenty of fault.
Reply With Quote
  #27  
Old 07-22-2009, 11:15 AM
Rhoni Rhoni is offline
delete account


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 8,086
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

I think that every Pastor should have an outside job to keep them in touch with the needs and schedules of those who carry full time positions.

It has been my experience, having been on both sides of the fence; that at one time my life was 'the church' and my expectations of the saints were irrational and many times unfair. Most households are two wage-earner households and the length of revivals, and attendance to every function at the church. Many saints fuss about many doing away with Sunday Night service, but I happen to agree with this. The difficult part is that in lui of not having a Sunday Night Service, they have Monday night Prayer, Tuesday night women's meeting, Wednesday night Bible Study, Youth ministries on Friday night, ect. which defeats the purpose of not having a Sunday night service.

The BEST I had seen this handled is at the UPCI church in Clearwater, FL. I enjoyed church more when it began Sunday Morning:
8-9 a.m. Leadership prayer
9-10 a.m. Choir practice and getting ready for class, cafe - coffeee & donuts
10-11 a.m. Sunday School classes, support groups, ect
11 a.m. Morning worhsip and evangelistic service.

We prayed before services in the sanctuary and it ushered in the presence of the Lord. Mid-week service was at a reasonable hour for those who worked, and any extra things were for that particular group only and did not involve the whole church.

I think this is one of the only churches I have been to that are so aware of the needs of the people to spend time at home [Monday being Family night for everyone at home], and limiting extra services to accommodate those who worked. They also limited the number of special meetings to quality ones in a specific time frame that would be beneficial and not financilly hurtful and keep the kids up late not allowing them to get rest for school.

I said all that to say: It is so much easier for Pastors who have worked or are working to meet the needs of the working class that fills out churches.

Blessings, Rhoni
Reply With Quote
  #28  
Old 07-22-2009, 11:19 AM
Rhoni Rhoni is offline
delete account


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 8,086
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

Quote:
Originally Posted by U376977 View Post
The pastor who does not take from the church financially hurts the whole body. People are blessed when they are givers. Period. No better way to give to the Lord than to bless his servants; apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors and teachers.
You have been listening too much to Paula White, Steve Munsey, and ...

Reply With Quote
  #29  
Old 07-22-2009, 11:21 AM
GrowingPains GrowingPains is offline
Guest


 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 873
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhoni View Post
You have been listening too much to Paula White, Steve Munsey, and ...

No he has a revelation on giving and his worship includes his wallet. Giving is powerful. It's not a "get rich" game, it's an attitude-shift. Money controls people's attitudes. The spirit of a giver never has that problem.
Reply With Quote
  #30  
Old 07-22-2009, 11:21 AM
U376977 U376977 is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Charlotte, NC
Posts: 897
Re: The Failing Examples of Pastoral Leadership

Quote:
Originally Posted by GrowingPains View Post
I haven't called anyone a "preacher hater." I'm suggesting the text was used incorrectly, in light of all the other scriptures on the same subject.
GP I agree with you. It was used incorrect, IMO
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Pastoral Authority....where did it come from? New Guy Fellowship Hall 152 01-30-2009 01:36 PM
The Failing Economy: A Convenient Truth for Obama deacon blues Political Talk 0 10-22-2008 12:23 PM
Pastoral Depression? mizpeh Fellowship Hall 7 06-08-2008 04:03 PM
What specifically are the Bible examples of holiness. COOPER Deep Waters 8 04-30-2007 02:12 PM
The Day I stop Hoping for Folks is the Day I start Failing People... revrandy Fellowship Hall 1 03-07-2007 10:44 AM

 
User Infomation
Your Avatar

Latest Threads
- by Salome
- by Praxeas

Help Support AFF!

Advertisement




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 07:43 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.