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09-18-2007, 03:28 PM
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the whole point is it is your choice... I am ProChoice when it comes to work for women!!!! 
My wife can work or not work.. that's up to her...  |
And I agree with you.
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09-18-2007, 03:30 PM
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Now that's funny right thar... if you don't think that's funny... you need to call your wife and tell her that dress makes her backside look big.... |
Huh?
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09-18-2007, 03:31 PM
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His Eminance, High Potatohead Potatotate
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Huh?
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j/k...not you.. I just thought Coonskinner being a feminist was funny....but I'm sure he'll appreciate the thoughts...
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09-18-2007, 03:34 PM
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j/k...not you.. I just thought Coonskinner being a feminist was funny....but I'm sure he'll appreciate the thoughts...
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Well, unless you know something I don't, that's my point for bringing it up. 
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09-18-2007, 03:35 PM
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Sure. If I am a feminist because of my views about marriage; then Coonskinner is too ( given that our viewpoints about the subject are more similar than not) as I see it. |
What are your/his viewpoints on marriage?
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Psa 19:14 Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.
1Pe 5:6-7 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time: Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
Tit 3:2 To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.
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09-18-2007, 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted by BreakingFree
Hm, this would be ideal, but is it realistic? For example, if we tell our women that their primary job is #2 above, what happens if that man does not do #1 and leaves her? Or what happens, if God forbid, he becomes disabled from an accident? We teach our women that all that matters is what they become in God, and while that's true, that does not mean they don't need an education. Yes, I realize the topic is not education, but the world has changed and while the role of the women is ideally to care for the home and children, it's just not that realistic. They need a way to be strong and in charge is tragedy strikes. Nope, I say a strong woman is an asset to the family, church, whatever. I agree that women can be catty, manipulative, gossipy, etc. I have seen a women here at my company usurp the authority of the manager. I realize that the majority of the mess that has been created here is because of that. Then it dawned on me, he let her. Who's the man around here, who's the boss?
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You can get an education as back up. I have a Sociology / Psychology Degree.
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09-18-2007, 03:43 PM
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What are your/his viewpoints on marriage?
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A marriage made up of two ADULTS; with the husband using the trump card (authority to make a decision they both can't agree on) in the rarest of situations, based on a matter of great importance.
NO caveman mentality.
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09-18-2007, 03:45 PM
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Originally Posted by Newman
A marriage made up of two ADULTS; with the husband using the trump card (authority to make a decision they both can't agree on) in the rarest of situations, based on a matter of great importance.
NO caveman mentality. |
The truth is the men do need to make decisions...it's the way that God created them...in that order...the problem is women are having to make decisions because men have been too stupid to do so...
A husband that makes a decision sometimes supported by the wife..sometimes not (agreement is not always a test of love) but once the decision is made and acted on the wife will have much more respect for him than if he was wishy-washy... and undecided all the time..
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09-18-2007, 03:47 PM
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My Family!
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Originally Posted by Newman
A marriage made up of two ADULTS; with the husband using the trump card (authority to make a decision they both can't agree on) in the rarest of situations, based on a matter of great importance.
NO caveman mentality. |
That would be two adults of the opposite sex! 
Have to make that clear these days!
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09-18-2007, 03:48 PM
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Originally Posted by BreakingFree
Hm, this would be ideal, but is it realistic? For example, if we tell our women that their primary job is #2 above, what happens if that man does not do #1 and leaves her? Or what happens, if God forbid, he becomes disabled from an accident? We teach our women that all that matters is what they become in God, and while that's true, that does not mean they don't need an education. Yes, I realize the topic is not education, but the world has changed and while the role of the women is ideally to care for the home and children, it's just not that realistic. They need a way to be strong and in charge is tragedy strikes. Nope, I say a strong woman is an asset to the family, church, whatever. I agree that women can be catty, manipulative, gossipy, etc. I have seen a women here at my company usurp the authority of the manager. I realize that the majority of the mess that has been created here is because of that. Then it dawned on me, he let her. Who's the man around here, who's the boss?
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good points bf, the world is different and we have seen those scenarios play out, we need to live in this century , since we are here , lol, you are right it is actually his fault he let her create that mess, and now you have to fix it, somebody has too, so you are the woman for the job, or at least to point it out, god bless you for taking care of your self in a very real world, i wish the cookie cutter world existed but for most of us it doesnt, dt 
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