Back to the orginal post, if I may share a few thoughts on the comments coming from said pastor.
"If you are struggling financially, all I have to do is go look at the books in the office and I know immediately why you are struggling."
Hosea 6:6 For I desired mercy, and not sacrifice; and the knowledge of God more than burnt offerings. The pastor should offer compassion and understanding while this man works thru a difficult time in his life.
"Tithe on what you want to make, not on what you make." Essentially this pastor has told his flock to
press God for a pay raise....don't do that.