In the Methodist church, you actually "Join" the church. You stand before the congregation and make a vow to uphold the church with your time, your talents, your gifts and your service. Those people take that vow as seriously as some people take their wedding vows! They mean what they say!
In all the years I was in the UPC, I never actually witnessed anyone "join" the church. They seemed to think that attending regularly, tithing and being active was the same thing as being a "member".
Now don't get me wrong. I saw alot of people who were members of the Methodist church in name only. They were members but never showed up. They usually sent their offerings in regularly - because they wanted to keep their names on the books. I have no problem with the fact that UPC people don't get up and make membership vows. But I'm just saying that as far as "membership" goes, no one is actually a card-carrying bonified MEMBER, except perhaps the clergy.
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