Re: Pastors forced to perform same-sex marriages
Frankly, all of this is why I believe the government should get out of the marriage business. It isn't illegal to have a purely ecclesiastical or spiritual marriage. You just can't file taxes as though you're in a civil marriage. Also, to receive certain rights you need powers of attorney. Quakers and other Christian groups have opposed civil marriages for many years. Early Quakers had no licensed clergy and refused to file their marriages with the state. Some still do. However, they are advised to have legal counsel to ensure that they have various rights in areas of health care and finances.
These groups point out that, "biblically speaking", marriage wasn't a civil construct of the government... but rather a private contract between a couple and/or their families. Also, the marriage was typically presided over by the woman's father. However, a marriage could be established by the couple privately. It was like this in early America too. Hence the old "common law marriage" statutes.
The church could bless unions with "Holy Matrimony" and allow each individual couple to decide if they wanted to seek a "Civil Marriage" after the fact, or at all.
With this... Christian marriage customs become divorced (no pun intended) from the civil authority and are immune from civil intrusion and penalties if they do not provide civil marriages from same gender couples.
Last edited by Aquila; 07-07-2014 at 12:57 PM.
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