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Old 07-23-2007, 10:53 PM
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I haven't read through this thread, but I just want to say that I just got my diamond reset and it is a lot of BLING. I love it and am thrilled that my husband wanted me to have it. I can't imagine not wearing a wedding ring!
Sister, post some pics of that bad boy! I'd like to see how the other half gets to live!
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Hehehe! Brother, I have grown to really enjoy it when I find myself in agreement with my ultra conservative brethren on an issue. I know it throws some of y'all for a loop, seeing as how so many people around here think I am firmly in the liberal camp because of my objections to mandating dress codes from the pulpit. You may be surprised to find out how many things I actually agree with y'all on.


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Where is the teaching for a wedding ring in the scriptures?

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Old 07-23-2007, 11:18 PM
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I wear a wedding ring because it is the morally correct thing to do in a culture where the accepted practice distinguishing a married person from an unmarried person is the wearing of a ring.

I also believe God is in favor of this symbol of the covenant relationship I entered into with my wife almost 34 years ago. There is no evidence in Scripture that God is against gold, silver, and precious jewels. Matter of fact, the opposite is true. He enthusiatically embraces these things. He simply doesn't want this to be the adornment that distinguishes us as individuals.

I definitely don't want my wife running around without a wedding ring on. I think it's a disgrace for married women to be out and about without a wedding ring on, when this is the accepted cultural way of designating her marital status in our society. When I see a woman with children my first thoughts are that she is a single mother.

I think this teaching against wearing of rings is one of the most ridiculous teachings in Pentecostal circles.
I am in total agreement. I couldn't have stated it better. One of the most annoying issues is seeing UPC women , with children, and a bare hand!
In a culture that has accepted single motherhood, we need to "proclaim" marriage, and a ring is the recognizable symbol!.
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I am in total agreement. I couldn't have stated it better. One of the most annoying issues is seeing UPC women , with children, and a bare hand!
In a culture that has accepted single motherhood, we need to "proclaim" marriage, and a ring is the recognizable symbol!.
Thank God, our culture doesn't believe in a anaconda bone through the nose.

Anyone care to produce the scripture that says a woman must wear a wedding ring to show she is married.

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are you kidding the nuts around Pensacola would all be wearing them.
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Actually, I think there's some Bible to back this no jewelry thing. Brother Epley made a good point about it being tolerated by God in the OT and them always taking it off whenever they were trying to get back right with Him. The principle is there, Brother. I will agree it's not a spelled out thou shalt not type of thing, but the principle is still there.

I see the hair, pants, etc. thing to be the right principle, but misapplied.
Actually the OT does not merely have God tolerating Jewelry, but promoting it by referring to righteous Israel having jewels or how God wanted to deck Israel with Jewels....it was when Israel was bad that God wanted to take her jewels and that was the same principle of Israel taking off their jewels to get right with God...they also put on sackclothe and ashes. That doesn't mean God hated Jewelry or only tolerated it.
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Old 07-24-2007, 07:43 AM
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are you kidding the nuts around Pensacola would all be wearing them.
Sister, the only thing nutty about Pensacola is that insane Baptist preacher Peter S. Ruckman ( an the Brownsville Haunted Church). Other than that it's a nice little countryfied town.

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Old 07-24-2007, 08:40 AM
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So you blame the person wearing a ring for the OTHER persons spirit?!?!?! . . . It sounds like to me that person came pre-jacked up to begin with. Her temptation was out of the lust of her OWN heart. Perhaps something she never settled to begin with.
I agree that this is most probably the case. What I'm trying to say is that it is unnerving to realize that I WAS THE GUY that knocked over the FIRST DOMINO.

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Might I add that if THIS is really true, then we should all live in shacks and take the bus for fear of causing someone else to be tempted with a bad spirit and go buy a more expensive car or house...
Be careful. This is scriptural. You just might turn yourself into an UC . . .

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Again, the problem is where HER eyes were to begin with...on material things and other people's business or on God.
Yes. So sad. And saddening to watch them fall.

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Notice James did not once try to apply fault to the person wearing the ring or the clothes? Something is wrong, really wrong when we blame everyone else for our own stinking spirits
Yeah. I guess you kinda had to be there . . .
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Im not married. Nor do I believe the bible backs up NOT wearing one.

Im not married. Nor do I believe the bible instructs us to wear one. It's not a doctrinal issue
Thank you!

Thank you for responding with your position.

I can't help but notice that you've assumed all the partiality of Switzerland. Hard-nosed ambivalence - what a way of life!
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