Rejection - Page 5

RandyWayne · #41 02-15-2012, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Titus2woman

Don't misunderstand me... Breasts have plenty of great uses before and after babies... My 'baby' is 28 years old and my boobs are still serving good purpose

It is probably MORE important for marrieds to have 'game'. Someone you do not live with is naturally interesting, always clean and on best behaviour, etc. It's a lot harder to dig up those grovin' moves for someone you have helped to the bathroom after surgery, seen deliver a baby, washed their dirty underwear, fought with over money and kids... blah, blah. But it CAN be done... and a great time to practice is in your dating life when there is really no pressure. If something doesn't jive you can just go home... once you are married if something doesn't jive you will have to lock yourself in the bathroom to get away

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My husband is not tall... I had always dated tall men, I'm tall myself and never thought I could feel feminine with a man under 6ft. But there was something about Don that just said he could get the job done... and he has for almost 30 years. Looking back and trying to decide what that was... well... confidence, humor, decency... but more than anything he was himself... no put on... and that is the best 'game' of all.

Some very good thoughts here!

I've joked with others about how one can feel "in love" with their boyfriend or girlfriend but you will know if your REALLY in love after your married and you see when your better half forgets to "flush". LOL It has a way of washing away all the starry dreamy 'romantic' notions of love you may have had, but it is replaced by something better, the real thing.

And yes, romance can (and must!) survive the realities of a long term relationship in order for it to stay long term. Funny thing is, is long as you work at it continuously, even a little (and picked the right spouse to begin with that isn't TOO incompatible) it isn't that hard!

The Matt · #42 02-15-2012, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by bbyrd009

My best friend met his current beau on a site like this, and is quite happy.

I'm iffy about dating sites...I imagine from this site a woman whos soul purpose is destroying an apostolic mans faith, and who knows no boundaries to do so. Eeeevil peoples in the world.

Amanah · #43 02-15-2012, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by The Matt

I'm iffy about dating sites...I imagine from this site a woman whos soul purpose is destroying an apostolic mans faith, and who knows no boundaries to do so. Eeeevil peoples in the world.

you've been reading proverbs to much. join the site.

bbyrd009 · #44 02-15-2012, 01:42 PM

differences are what bring you together, similarities keep you together, right?
we instinctively initially dislike those most like us; lol no issues there.

The Matt · #45 02-15-2012, 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Amanah

you've been reading proverbs to much. join the site.

I may. I'll pray about it.

bbyrd009 · #46 02-15-2012, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Amanah

you've been reading proverbs to much. join the site.

ya, I agree; you can get to know someone's heart pretty well in posts--might even be a better way.

Titus2woman · #47 02-15-2012, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by bbyrd009

My best friend met his current beau on a site like this, and is quite happy.

Never having heard the term 'beau' used for a female... I am wondering... is your best friend gay?

houston · #48 02-15-2012, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Titus2woman

Never having heard the term 'beau' used for a female... I am wondering... is your best friend gay?

More like "byew" as in beauty. Not the sound a ghost makes.

houston · #49 02-15-2012, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by The Matt

I'm iffy about dating sites...I imagine from this site a woman whos soul purpose is destroying an apostolic mans faith, and who knows no boundaries to do so. Eeeevil peoples in the world.

Did you even click on the link? It's an apostolic single site. I have a paid membership. Probably a waste because the women's expectations are unreal, they are not on par with what they want. AND, I am not considered a UCON or even a Moderate in Classical Pentecost.

The Matt · #50 02-15-2012, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by houston

Did you even click on the link? It's an apostolic single site. I have a paid membership. Probably a waste because the women's expectations are unreal, they are not on par with what they want. AND, I am not considered a UCON or even a Moderate in Classical Pentecost.

I understand the concept, it's a singles site for apostolic singles. Like I said, I'll pray about it.