1. In an inability/unwillingness to lead. When they let others walk on them.
2. In an overbearing/forceful attempt at leading. Where they go into an attack mode when leading is needed.
The first has simply accepted their inability to lead and have resigned themselves to accept whatever is dealt them.
The others (probably not knowingly) have also accepted their inability to lead so they have resorted to pushing. One cannot lead and push at the same time. If you are pushing someone you are no longer in front.
A true leader leads by his word.
A true leader leads by example.
A true leader does not attack those who do not follow.
A leader will, instead, reserve his "attacks" for those who would attack those whom he leads.
__________________ "It is inhumane, in my opinion, to force people who have a genuine medical need for coffee to wait in line behind people who apparently view it as some kind of recreational activity." Dave Barry 2005
I am a firm believer in the Old Paths
Articles on such subjects as "The New Birth," will be accepted, whether they teach that the new birth takes place before baptism in water and Spirit, or that the new birth consists of baptism of water and Spirit. - THE PENTECOSTAL HERALD Dec. 1945
"It is doubtful if any Trinitarian Pentecostals have ever professed to believe in three gods, and Oneness Pentecostals should not claim that they do." - Daniel Segraves