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05-26-2009, 01:38 AM
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What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend
Hello bros&sisters, need your advice, I feel so hopeless thats why I posted my problem here. What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend. I am his first boyfriend, she was 27 yrs old, I am 30. and we are goin to marry soon. We are both christians. We love each other. My problem was, my girlfriend was so moody, easy to angry. She turns small things into a big argue... I hate being nagged, because I don't treat her like that. She was so perfectionist.
Is there anyway to turn her into a peaceful person? Please pray for me I am loosing my patience. I don't want to loose our relationship because I love her. Need your advice.
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05-26-2009, 08:24 AM
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
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Originally Posted by webdesigner
Hello bros&sisters, need your advice, I feel so hopeless thats why I posted my problem here. What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend. I am his first boyfriend, she was 27 yrs old, I am 30. and we are goin to marry soon. We are both christians. We love each other. My problem was, my girlfriend was so moody, easy to angry. She turns small things into a big argue... I hate being nagged, because I don't treat her like that. She was so perfectionist.
Is there anyway to turn her into a peaceful person? Please pray for me I am loosing my patience. I don't want to loose our relationship because I love her. Need your advice.
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That is not a good trait, you might consider marriage counseling with a competent Christian counselor. Many times a trait that is moderated during dating will become much less restrained after marriage. The root cause needs to be found and resolved, otherwise you could be in for a very unpleasant wife. I'll bet she doesn't allow you to treat her in the same way, but gets her feelings hurt if you do???
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05-26-2009, 10:43 AM
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Love God, Love Your Neighbor
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
I would strongly recommend that you not marry her.
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05-26-2009, 10:53 AM
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
You don't "tame" (or change) anyone. You marry them exactly as they are. If you expect them to change, you will be sorely disappointed. So find someone who is right for you just as they are, and marry that person. :)
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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05-26-2009, 11:03 AM
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
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Originally Posted by webdesigner
Hello bros&sisters, need your advice, I feel so hopeless thats why I posted my problem here. What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend. I am his first boyfriend, she was 27 yrs old, I am 30. and we are goin to marry soon. We are both christians. We love each other. My problem was, my girlfriend was so moody, easy to angry. She turns small things into a big argue... I hate being nagged, because I don't treat her like that. She was so perfectionist.
Is there anyway to turn her into a peaceful person? Please pray for me I am loosing my patience. I don't want to loose our relationship because I love her. Need your advice.
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If you don't like the nagging now; will you like it in 30 years?
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05-26-2009, 11:05 AM
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Love God, Love Your Neighbor
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
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If you don't like the nagging now; will you like it in 30 years?
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Not only in 30 years, but for 30 years.
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05-26-2009, 12:10 PM
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
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Originally Posted by *AQuietPlace*
Not only in 30 years, but for 30 years.
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Exactly!!!!!
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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05-26-2009, 01:30 PM
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Prayerful lives are powerful
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
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Originally Posted by BrotherEastman
If you don't like the nagging now; will you like it in 30 years?
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Exactly!
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05-26-2009, 01:30 PM
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
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Exactly!!!!!
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Ditto!
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05-26-2009, 01:38 PM
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Re: What should I do to tame my war freak girlfrie
Do not think for a second that you will change her. She will only change if she wants to. She has shown you her true colors and you can accept them or leave them. That's just real life - no fairy tale. :-)
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