Apostolic Friends Forum
Tab Menu 1
Go Back   Apostolic Friends Forum > The Fellowship Hall > Fellowship Hall
Facebook

Notices

Fellowship Hall The place to go for Fellowship & Fun!


Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 03-24-2008, 01:26 AM
Rico Rico is offline
Shaking the dust off my shoes.


 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Nunya bidness
Posts: 9,004
It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

Ya know, sometimes I have to scratch my head at how things work themselves out. A few months ago I got a job I honestly thought was going to be my last job. The company offered all the things I am looking for in terms of retirement, there was room for me to advance, and the people were very easy to get along with. So, I took this job and thought I was on my way. Well, not too long after I started this job things starting happening that I was not counting on. It turned out that I was given a shift working from 3:30 to midnight. At first I didn't mind because I had been told that I would have the time to do my school work because of how slow things are. This was the main reason why I accepted this shift. Not too long after I accepted this shift I found myself so far behind in my school work that I ended up dropping out. What I had been told turned out to be a lie.

Anyway, after I dropped out of my online college courses, I decide to make the best of this job. Before I knew it, the company had piled so many things on me to do that I really started not liking the job. I went from looking forward to going in every day to wondering how bad a mood I would be in when I headed home every night at midnight. By this time some other unexpected things were happening at home.

My wife is a good woman, but she just isn't good with controlling all these kids. There are four of them and you have to really stay on top of them or they end up walking all over you. Well, my wife, unfortunately, lost control of the kids and they were pretty much doing whatever they wanted to. They knew that I wouldn't be home until after midnight, so the party was on! This became a serious problem in our home. They were completely disrespecting her and basically had taken the house over. It was difficult for me to do much about this, seeing as how I literally did not see my children except for my days off. I tried implementing different punishment strategies, but it's too little too late to punish someone on Saturday for something they did on Monday, especially when you are talking about a 6 year old and 7 year old. I can't honestly say that I blame them. It's only natural for kids to take advantage when they know they can. My wife just isn't capable of controlling them the way I can, when I have the opportunity to interact with them on a daily basis.

To continue, I tried repeatedly to get my shift changed and the higher ups absolutely refused. I am bilingual and second shift is where they needed me. No transfer to a day shift. On top of that, I was forced into becoming a collector and I can't stand collectors. On my last week there I was informed that I had to take the collector training because I spoke Spanish and they had lost too many Spanish collectors.

By the time this had happened, two other things had already happened. I had prayed and asked God to get me out of that situation and I had already scheduled my vacation for the week of March 24th, this coming week.

The night finally came, two weeks ago last Thursday, that I decided I had had enough so I quit. I told them that I would not accept being forced to become something I can't stand, and that I was not going to continue putting my family at risk because of this company's refusal to move me to a day time shift.

Here comes the part that has me scratching my head and wanting to shout! The last month or so I was at this job I started thinking about getting back into insurance work. I had made OK money selling insurance and had been tossing this idea back and forth and back and forth. The very next week after I quit I got a notification from the Employment Office (I get these in the mail every few weeks when they find something my qualifications match) that a local bank was looking for an insurance agent to run their agency. Unlike most agent positions, this one offers a decent salary plus commission. I submitted my resume and got a phone call from the bank VP on Friday. I have an interview with them tomorrow at 10 am!! This is the same week I had already scheduled for my vacation, so meeting them at any time would not have been an issue.

On top of that interview, I have another interview with an agency in Evansville on Tuesday. It seems to me that, while I know that I jumped the gun a bit in quitting when I did, the Lord has been working on this situation for me all along. He knows how hard it's been for me to watch how things have deteriorated so much here at home with my kids. When I came home and told them I had quit they were glad. They didn't much like the fact that I wasn't around in the evenings either.

Maybe it is a coincidence that the interview is scheduled for the same week I would have had off, but it's more than a coincidence to me. Insurance jobs like this one don't come along every day. I am not into the whole name it and claim it line of reasoning, but something in me wants to claim this job in Jesus name!

So, I am asking y'all to pray with me that God's will be done with this insurance job. I will admit that I am a bit nervous about getting back into insurance. Anyone who knows me will tell you how much I hate having to keep my beard all nicely and neatly trimmed, along with keeping my hair cut so it looks professional. I prefer looking like a wild man! I am also not into wearing a tie, but I actually went out and bought one for this interview! LOL! Anyway, pray with me about this interview. This job will be good for me. I won't just be working at the agency, I will be running it. Thanks.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 03-24-2008, 05:27 AM
Michael Phelps's Avatar
Michael Phelps Michael Phelps is offline
Rebel with a cause.


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Omaha, Nebraska
Posts: 6,813
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

Praying here!
__________________
"Many people view their relationship with God like a "color by number" picture. It's easier to let someone else define the boundaries, tell them which blanks to fill in, and what color to use than it is for them to take a blank canvas and seek inspiration from the Source in order to paint their own masterpiece"
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 03-24-2008, 08:46 AM
Cindy's Avatar
Cindy Cindy is offline
Forever Loved Admin


 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Texas
Posts: 26,537
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

Praying Rico.......God is faithful.
__________________
If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV

He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV

Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 03-24-2008, 08:52 AM
ManOfWord's Avatar
ManOfWord ManOfWord is offline
Honorary Admin


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Sandusky, Ohio
Posts: 6,287
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

May the Lord direct your steps and guide you that you and your family may be blessed above measure and that He may receive glory!!!
__________________
"Those who go after the "Sauls" among us often slay the Davids among us." Gene Edwards
Executive Servant
http://www.newlife-church.org
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 03-24-2008, 08:56 AM
Cindy's Avatar
Cindy Cindy is offline
Forever Loved Admin


 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Texas
Posts: 26,537
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

You know for years Rico my husband worked nights and I learned to very carefully never tell my kids just wait til your daddy gets home. Then after we moved down here to the country for years he stayed in the city where he worked which was over 100 miles away and came on on weekends. I had 6 kids and it was tough sometimes but we survived and now they are just fantastic adults.

p.s. Try keeping little kids quiet during the day so their dad can sleep.............lol
__________________
If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV

He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV

Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 03-24-2008, 08:57 AM
freeatlast's Avatar
freeatlast freeatlast is offline
the ultracon


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: smack dab in da middle
Posts: 4,443
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

WoW God help ya Rico. We pray God travels with you Rico
__________________
God has lavished his love upon me.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 03-24-2008, 12:19 PM
Rico Rico is offline
Shaking the dust off my shoes.


 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Nunya bidness
Posts: 9,004
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

Well, I didn't get a job offer, but he told me they aren't going to be making any decisions for another 4-6 weeks. He wants me to contact him again in 2-3 weeks to see where they are in the process. Apparently, they not only had to let an agent go for trying to establish a separate agency using their clients, but the csr they had also left. They want to get the new csr trained first before they bring in anyone who is going to produce more business for them. Right now I would gues my chance at 50/50 with this job.

I have an interview with another agency tomorrow at 10 am. This fella is interested because I can speak Spanish. I guess we shall see how that one goes.

Thanks for your prayers. I really appreciate it.
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 03-24-2008, 12:50 PM
Kay B's Avatar
Kay B Kay B is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Hoonah,Alaska
Posts: 1,552
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

Will be praying for you brother.
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 03-24-2008, 01:24 PM
Scott Hutchinson's Avatar
Scott Hutchinson Scott Hutchinson is offline
Resident PeaceMaker


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Jackson,AL.
Posts: 16,548
Re: It's Funny How Things Play Themselves Out

Trust In God and He can work things out.
__________________
People who are always looking for fault,can find it easily all they have to do,is look into their mirror.
There they can find plenty of fault.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Let's Play....... Scattergories! Tina Fellowship Hall 40 02-21-2008 09:50 PM
MUSICIAN? What Do You Play? Steadfast Fellowship Hall 55 01-18-2008 12:12 AM
Anybody Else Play.... revrandy Fellowship Hall 21 08-01-2007 08:53 PM
Funny things God has told us to do Sister Alvear Fellowship Hall 1 06-21-2007 10:10 AM
Funny things that happen at church Trouvere Fellowship Hall 2 06-13-2007 01:50 AM

 
User Infomation
Your Avatar

Latest Threads
- by jfrog
- by Salome
- by Amanah

Help Support AFF!

Advertisement




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:15 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.