Single Apostolic Men -VS-Single Apostolic Mothers

[HeavenlyOne]

Originally Posted by Berkeley

I wasn't payin much attention to what was written, and to my own answer. I clarified it via pm. They are free to post what I wrote privately. If they don't, well....

Originally Posted by Berkeley via PM

no no.. I just re-read everything..

if he didn't want anything to do with the child -that's one thing

but this guy doesn't even know.. that isn't right.. blah.. foot in mouth.. too late to take my words back

Thanks again, my friend.

[missdkendall]

Originally Posted by RandyWayne

I wonder if some of the more conservative churches would even allow such a wedding to take place. Its already been said by some that they wouldn't allow a couple to marry in their church who weren't virgins. (Ya know.... not "touched for the very first time". LOL)

Ugh Madonna?!?!? LOL!!!!

[A_PoMo]

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea

Sorry dude ... ain't gonna work.

God has someone for me ... and I think it will be soon.

Hey, if you decide to get married in Maui, I know a guy....

And his wife can make some pretty mean chili for your reception. It's a twofer deal. You can't go wrong.

[HeavenlyOne]

Originally Posted by missdkendall

OK... So I have to clear something up. I never said I thought it was cool not to tell the guy! In this girls situation she can't. Like I told Berk in PM...... She was out of town on a cruise to the Bahamas, and made a mistake one night, and woke up in the strangers room. She doesn't know his name, what state he lives in , phone number, NOTHING. She is not keeping it from him to be mean. She can't really help it. See, it's not so easy is it?

Your posts didn't hint to this, but rather that it was a purposeful action on her part.

[missdkendall]

Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne

Your posts didn't hint to this, but rather that it was a purposeful action on her part.

Well now everyone knows. Do you actually think, me being an Apostolic Holy Ghost filled person would condone that. I'm sorry I wasn't clear about it. I will be more specific from now on. I see how there was a misunderstanding with the point I was trying to make

[HeavenlyOne]

Originally Posted by missdkendall

Well now everyone knows. Do you actually think, me being an Apostolic Holy Ghost filled person would condone that. I'm sorry I wasn't clear about it. I will be more specific from now on. I see how there was a misunderstanding with the point I was trying to make

Well, sadly, we can only go by what we read.

I'm misunderstood on a daily basis, so you might want to get used to it. I'm still trying...LOL!

This kind of topic gets in my craw because I have a father who wants nothing to do with me, and my kids have one that wants nothing to do with them.

Thankfully, my grandparents and uncle, as well as my siblings and cousins have a relationship with me. My kids' dad's family cut them off the day he did. We haven't heard from any of them in almost ten years. It's sad.

[missdkendall]

Originally Posted by HeavenlyOne

Well, sadly, we can only go by what we read.

I'm misunderstood on a daily basis, so you might want to get used to it. I'm still trying...LOL!

This kind of topic gets in my craw because I have a father who wants nothing to do with me, and my kids have one that wants nothing to do with them.

Thankfully, my grandparents and uncle, as well as my siblings and cousins have a relationship with me. My kids' dad's family cut them off the day he did. We haven't heard from any of them in almost ten years. It's sad.

MUAH!!!!!! I'll get used to it

[SDG]

Originally Posted by A_PoMo

Hey, if you decide to get married in Maui, I know a guy....

There's a young lady in CA that's got my attention ... we'll keep this in mind.

[A_PoMo]

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea

There's a young lady in CA that's got my attention ... we'll keep this in mind.

Hmmm......

[chosenbyone]

Originally Posted by IBCrazier2

What prompted the questions is, we had a young lady in our church

In the choir, singing specials, very much "In church", slept with a young man from a neighboring church.

Lied her way out of it ... still "in church", singing in choir, on the platform, etc
couple of years later was actually caught in the act of the same thing

3rd time around she was pregnant ...... NO DON"T marry her

** Hypothetical
Girl goes off to college, quits going to church, lives a sinful life, gets pregnant

Comes back home, gets right with God and proves herself, YES I could see marrying her


***Another angle
No matter which way it was ...... there will always be in the back of the husbands mind .... will she go out and do this again

I have a cousin who was such a godly, anointed young lady and there was no doubt that God had something special for her. Well, to all of our surprise, she ended up getting pregnant when she was 16 from a boy that was several years older. She was a virgin and had never even kissed a guy before meeting this preacher's kid.

This was back in the eighties and it was very difficult for her and her family. Even though, she was shunned and her life's dreams seemed shattered, she repented and focused on college and her baby boy. She spent several years without one date even though she was a beautiful young lady. Many people in and outside of the church never let her forget her past mistakes, so meeting a guy from her area that would except her and her son looked hopeless. What kept her going was the promise she received from the Lord that one day she would marry a minister.

Sure enough, when her son was around eleven, she met and married an evangelist and today they have two children together and pastor a thriving home missions church. He had never been married or had any children and he excepted her son as his own. In fact, he became a great dad for her son and was able to help him during some rocky teenage years.

If she would have believed what people said about her she would have never seen her heart's desire come to fruition.