OK, here's the final update on dear Oneness Theologian: It appears that his only motive was to throw barbs and criticize. I offered the opportunity more than once for meaningful dialogue and it was ignored. I answered the questions he asked me and I asked what he had to fear from me knowing who he was. He never answered and never did give a reason for remaining anonymous.
Upon further investigation of his emails, I believe it is a former poster on NFCF whose IP has been blocked here on AFF, which is why he can only lurk. At this point, I can't definitively confirm that, but I am conviced that had he continued to email me, that I could have found him.
(he's just worth all the hassle and effort) I just personally believe that this person wanted so badly to post here on AFF but couldn't so he emailed me.
I've been around the block long enough to spot knuckleheads like this who are so full of religion that they are actually convinced that they are "truth detectors!" Upon receiving his last response, it was obvious that he could care less about me as a person and cared more about his doctrinal position.
I really have no time for people who want to play games, so I finally blocked his email address. I really thought for a moment that we could have had some meaningful discussion, but it appears that he is too lofty for that.
I guess I really should have taken advice that I have received over the years from seasoned veteran leaders and that is to completely disregard anonymous criticism. Lesson learned........................I think!