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Old 02-12-2007, 06:47 PM
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FWIW, My dad used to mow the grass in his suit and tie!!!!!
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Old 02-12-2007, 06:51 PM
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FWIW, My dad used to mow the grass in his suit and tie!!!!!
Must have been rich to afford all that dry cleaning.
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Old 02-12-2007, 06:57 PM
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I'll just have to tell this...a couple years ago Franklin Jentzen's church in Atlanta decided to go casual on the platform...when I was visiting I did not feel the least bit impressed with the wrinkled shirts and jeans...I sent him an e-mail about the lack of professionalism and that I was raised to wear my best for the Lord. While you could not enforce, nor would you ever want to make anyone feel uncomfortable wearing what they have to church, I felt the leadership should be more of an example.

He changed it back within two weeks. I am sure it wasn't just my e-mail but he probably got many! LOL

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Old 02-12-2007, 07:02 PM
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Must have been rich to afford all that dry cleaning.
hahaha He wore a suit and tie from sun-up to to sun-down!
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Old 02-12-2007, 07:24 PM
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I'll just have to tell this...a couple years ago Franklin Jentzen's church in Atlanta decided to go casual on the platform...when I was visiting I did not feel the least bit impressed with the wrinkled shirts and jeans...I sent him an e-mail about the lack of professionalism and that I was raised to wear my best for the Lord. While you could not enforce, nor would you ever want to make anyone feel uncomfortable wearing what they have to church, I felt the leadership should be more of an example.

He changed it back within two weeks. I am sure it wasn't just my e-mail but he probably got many! LOL

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"No suit and tie" does not have to equate to "sloppy wrinkled shirts and jeans".

There is some acceptable ground in between the two. It's not hard to find it.
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Old 02-12-2007, 08:43 PM
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I don't consider I as a Saint have much to say about how a Pastor dresses. Where do y'all get the cheap ties?
Burlinton coat factory! nice ties and good price! nice dress socks too!
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FWIW, My dad used to mow the grass in his suit and tie!!!!!
lol! sounds like my father in law. He did everything in his white dress shirt. whether working in the yard, going to town, the store, gas station...everything was done in his church clothes...lol
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Old 02-12-2007, 08:54 PM
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I'll just have to tell this...a couple years ago Franklin Jentzen's church in Atlanta decided to go casual on the platform...when I was visiting I did not feel the least bit impressed with the wrinkled shirts and jeans...I sent him an e-mail about the lack of professionalism and that I was raised to wear my best for the Lord. While you could not enforce, nor would you ever want to make anyone feel uncomfortable wearing what they have to church, I felt the leadership should be more of an example.

He changed it back within two weeks. I am sure it wasn't just my e-mail but he probably got many! LOL

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Sister,
It's Jentezen Franklin, and the church is is Gainesville, GA.
I am not trying to be rude, please forgive if this comes across as heavy-handed.
Atlanta Bishop could tell you more.
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Old 02-12-2007, 09:22 PM
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Since then, I have come to acknowledge that the clothes are near as important as the person's heart. I used to think that clothes in church less than suit and tie and dressy dresses, were a tell tale indicator of a lack of spirituality! There is a reason I don't think that way any more. Simply, I have come to know the people who don't dress up and I have found that the clothes have absolutely nothing to do with it. At least that is my experience.
I agree that clothing is not an indicator of spirituality and people should not be made to feel less if they are not dressed up. At the same time, I think the tradition of dressing up is a good one and intend to lead by example.
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Old 02-12-2007, 09:55 PM
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Sometimes I wear a shirt and tie and sometimes I wear a crew neck with a jcaket. On Wednesday I rarely, if ever wear a tie and normally not even a jacket. I don't require our ministers to wear a tie either.

I think what's acceptable is what's acceptable for the specific congregation. (minus the dress)
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Old 02-12-2007, 10:00 PM
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Well brother, as soon as we let people start dressing 'casual' in chruch, that's when they'll let everything else go to and soon, you'll have folks sleeping with one another and committing adultery...

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Tradition!!!!
Ha! I've been hearing that tune for over 10yrs now. It hasn't happened yet! Imagine allowing people liberty and them not going overboard with it. Imagine people with cut hair and slacks and, God forbid, facial hair, still living holy and acting like they love Jesus and each other!
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