Do you have a game? Ladies can have games too. Some girls wait forever for Mr. Right. Sometimes....sometimes he's some shy guy you'd never meet unless you break the ice. Maybe he's been through a divorce and is wondering if there are any decent women his age that are still available. Why not take a look at your game? I've known girls who were divorced with kids, the works. And they suddenly discover that they've got something to offer and they make some changes in wardrobed, social circles, and "find" where the fish are bitin' if you know what I mean.
It's all in fun and getting to know people. You might get to know a special someone who you'd have never met if you didn't have a game.
Its amazing Rhoni, but I have felt the need to pray for you and your future husband (whomever he is). So here goes...
Father,
You are just soooooooo awesome. And soooooo loving. I cannot tell you how wonderful you are! Its just amazing that we can come to your throne and sit at your feet and tell you whats on our hearts.
I know in my spirit you have a wonderful man for Rhoni. One who "gets it".
I just ask you right now to reveal him to her in your time, place a hedge of protection around them and the relationship that has already started, even if they have not met yet. I know you will be the foundation of that relationship and will bless them far beyond thier expectations. And, for all this we thank you, and give you all glory!!!
In Jesus Name
SteveP,
Thank you...I am sitting here crying like baby. I don't know why it has been do difficult for him to find me...I've been waiting...
Thank you again.
Do you have a game? Ladies can have games too. Some girls wait forever for Mr. Right. Sometimes....sometimes he's some shy guy you'd never meet unless you break the ice. Maybe he's been through a divorce and is wondering if there are any decent women his age that are still available. Why not take a look at your game? I've known girls who were divorced with kids, the works. And they suddenly discover that they've got something to offer and they make some changes in wardrobed, social circles, and "find" where the fish are bitin' if you know what I mean.
It's all in fun and getting to know people. You might get to know a special someone who you'd have never met if you didn't have a game.
I like meeting people and having fun, even with other men, but it's the relationship part that I have difficulty with. I'm quite the independent person and it's difficult for me to allow someone else to take the lead. This was especially true in my second marriage where my husband constantly made bad choices.
Speaking of him, he wants to get back together, but frankly, I'm not interested. That's the short version.
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I've gone and done it now! I'm on Facebook!!!
I like meeting people and having fun, even with other men, but it's the relationship part that I have difficulty with. I'm quite the independent person and it's difficult for me to allow someone else to take the lead. This was especially true in my second marriage where my husband constantly made bad choices.
Speaking of him, he wants to get back together, but frankly, I'm not interested. That's the short version.
It's ok to be an independent woman. You'll just have to find a guy who's not bothered by that. For some reason Apostolic men think they have to "rule" over a woman. I think every relationship is different. If you find a guy who's not worried about an independent woman...that's all good.
It's ok to be an independent woman. You'll just have to find a guy who's not bothered by that. For some reason Apostolic men think they have to "rule" over a woman. I think every relationship is different. If you find a guy who's not worried about an independent woman...that's all good.
Independence, for many women, is just a facade and they would gladly give up for love.
I have to agree with Rhoni on this one... I am a very independent woman 2 weeks a month... I have a very big teenager son who takes care of all the big stuff but otherwise if I dont do it it doesnt get done... well of course the kids clean and do their part but there are things that my husband would normally do that he is not here to do and I have to take care of the cars and the house and finding the maintenance man to fix whatever breaks etc..
I can gladly say that when those 2 weeks are over I gladly submit those troubles in the hands of the man who gladly takes them from me.. My facade is over for 2 more weeks and I am back to being me! I am actually a very dependant person unfortunately so it took years for me to get used to being a military wife and then the wife of a preacher who works oilfield (better known as an oilfield widow) and I have to say my best day is Tuesday a week from now when my knight in shining armor comes walking thru my front door!
It's ok to be an independent woman. You'll just have to find a guy who's not bothered by that. For some reason Apostolic men think they have to "rule" over a woman. I think every relationship is different. If you find a guy who's not worried about an independent woman...that's all good.
Pretty broad brush there, don't you think, Dr. Love?
__________________ "Many people view their relationship with God like a "color by number" picture. It's easier to let someone else define the boundaries, tell them which blanks to fill in, and what color to use than it is for them to take a blank canvas and seek inspiration from the Source in order to paint their own masterpiece"
Pretty broad brush there, don't you think, Dr. Love?
Your right I did not see that part... I do not agree at all there! At least not the men I know... now I do know one man who is that way with his wife and children he wont let them even go to public school or a church school because he would not have control nor will he let his wife who has many degrees work for the same reason but not all are like that at all!
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