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Old 06-07-2010, 04:41 PM
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Stabbing people

My pastor says he will never stab someone in their back...but he will stab them from the front. I am so thankful I have people in my life that are willing to stab me in the front. I need people that will hold a mirror in front of me and show me what others see. Without conflict there can be no growth.

I recently spent time with someone that has no one in his life that he has a close enough relationship to stab him from the front. It was astonishing the lack of self perception this man has. He had an amazingly high view of himself and his life and no one around him shared his views of himself. He abandoned his daughter and never even supported her financially, yet he takes all the credit for her success. He begins drinking first thing in the morning and drinks until he falls asleep at night but is convinced he doesn't have a problem. You could hack him up with a machete and it would do no good. He is not willing to allow anyone to correct anything in his life.

I am thankful for all the people around me that are willing to wound me so that I may grow.
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Old 06-07-2010, 04:52 PM
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I am thankful for all the people around me that are willing to wound me so that I may grow.
A true apsotle Paul.

"For it became him, for whom are all things, and by whom are all things, in bringing many sons unto glory, to make the captain of their salvation perfect through sufferings" (1Corinthians 2:10).

"If I must needs glory, I will glory of the things which concern mine infirmities" (1Corinthians 11:30).
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Old 06-07-2010, 04:53 PM
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Very masochistic.

Oh yes, cut me, stab me, shank me if you must. Uh... how about confront me in love and leave the weapons to yourself? Deal?
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Old 06-07-2010, 04:55 PM
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Very masochistic.

Oh yes, cut me, stab me, shank me if you must. Uh... how about confront me in love and leave the weapons to yourself? Deal?
Faithful are the wounds of a friend...

Sometimes love requires confrontation don't you think?
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Faithful are the wounds of a friend...

Sometimes love requires confrontation don't you think?
Sure, I definitely am more apt to receive a rebuke from someone that I trust.

Just thought the whole "I'll stab you in front" imagery was humorous. Sorry.
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Re: Stabbing people

Sometimes, one needs a violent shaking to wake them up.

If shaking doesn't work, maybe stabbing will.
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Sure, I definitely am more apt to receive a rebuke from someone that I trust.

Just thought the whole "I'll stab you in front" imagery was humorous. Sorry.
No reason to be sorry. It is a bit humorous...and Pastor Morales is one of the most loving people I have ever been around.

I am just amazed at the inability of people to grow who do not have people around them that are willing to confront them.
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My pastor says he will never stab someone in their back...but he will stab them from the front. I am so thankful I have people in my life that are willing to stab me in the front. I need people that will hold a mirror in front of me and show me what others see. Without conflict there can be no growth.

I recently spent time with someone that has no one in his life that he has a close enough relationship to stab him from the front. It was astonishing the lack of self perception this man has. He had an amazingly high view of himself and his life and no one around him shared his views of himself. He abandoned his daughter and never even supported her financially, yet he takes all the credit for her success. He begins drinking first thing in the morning and drinks until he falls asleep at night but is convinced he doesn't have a problem.
You could hack him up with a machete and it would do no good. He is not willing to allow anyone to correct anything in his life.

I am thankful for all the people around me that are willing to wound me so that I may grow.
From the back or from the front?

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From the back or from the front?

Both at the same time...But he would bleed cheap beer so stay out of the way.
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