What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend - Page 3

TJJJ · #21 06-21-2009, 11:08 PM

Run like a striped ape!!!!!

The woman is bad news!!!!

godsservant25 · #22 06-22-2009, 11:08 PM

Do what I did! Marry a tame one who is submitted to Jesus! Makes life simple for almost 38 years!

tv1a · #23 06-23-2009, 12:44 AM

Read Proverbs 31. That is the woman you look for. Once you find her you marry her. I married a godly woman who inhabits the qualities God wants in a woman.

If you stay with this woman, you'll end up like Ahab and the woman will ruin your life.

That being said. There are two sides to the story. I bet she has a few quirks about you which annoys her.

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Originally Posted by webdesigner

Hello bros&sisters, need your advice, I feel so hopeless thats why I posted my problem here. What should I do to tame my war freak girlfriend. I am his first boyfriend, she was 27 yrs old, I am 30. and we are goin to marry soon. We are both christians. We love each other. My problem was, my girlfriend was so moody, easy to angry. She turns small things into a big argue... I hate being nagged, because I don't treat her like that. She was so perfectionist.
Is there anyway to turn her into a peaceful person? Please pray for me I am loosing my patience. I don't want to loose our relationship because I love her. Need your advice.

Sister Alvear · #24 06-23-2009, 09:30 AM

People CAN change BUT te person MUST see a NEED and have a WANT TO in order to change...Please pray much...If you reay love her and she really loves you then go get help for her to fnd the cause of so much anger...

simplyme · #25 07-21-2009, 06:11 PM

I don't get the "war freak" label., sounds weird.
I can only surmise that she likes? or is prone to, disturbances.

Not a good start., be wise and stop this NOW while you still can
It doesn't mean that you don't love her but that you LOVE yourself,
and JESUS first of course., He doesn't want His beloved to suffer nor
be mistreated needlessly now or EVER.
He CAN also work on her to fix HER problems if and only if she will subit
to Him., so pls wait!

GrowingPains · #26 07-21-2009, 07:21 PM

RUN!

Her change won't come because her ceremony is threatened, her change will come on her own. For now... not worth it. Is this all the time or just lately?