We always hold hands when we're praying at home. In a restaurant, we just bow our heads and pray out loud. (But not loudly for show) We've occasionally held hands, but if it's more than family, only if they volunteer. I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable--but I do like the feeling of unity.
I don't think we should pray for show, however, I am not going to whisper in public. I'm talking to God. Not everyone else. If they happen to be in the vicinity, and don't appreciate it, I can't help that--I'm thankful to live in a country where we have the freedom to worship, even in public. I intend to exercise that freedom and teach our children to be unembarrassed to show God due reverence in any environment.
I have been at tables where heartfelt prayers were going forth and looked up to see waitresses with tear-filled eyes. We need to be careful about being too PC with our prayers. God may have a plan.
Daniel comes to my mind, on the topic of public, unabashed prayer.
very good points thanks sis
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I prefer the 'Get up and run around the table, ladies let your magic hair down, speak in tongues, shake someone violently to give them the Holy Ghost" prayer before a meal....
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