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02-12-2009, 07:04 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Whoa! I am like running out of popcorn here....
and she said this place was boring! 
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It isn't when it gets livened up
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02-12-2009, 07:15 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
Well, to speak generally about a general thread  , I vote NO!!!!!
Someone will assume you're living together in the biblical sense, and then you'll have to spend unnecessary time setting the record straight and most still won't believe you.
Now if an older woman (I'm thinking a SENIOR--65+) rented a room to a much younger man (30 or younger?), that MIGHT be okay.
Or if you rent a garage apartment to someone....
But living together in the same house? Well, first of all, why would anyone want to? Honestly? No offense to the guys, but most men are messy, sloppy, eat all the food in the fridge, they burp, pass gas, etc. Yeah, almost ALL of them do--in their own homes!!!!!! LOL!!!! So why would you willingly take one of them on for any other reason than they're your son or your husband? Or brother or father? Or Grandpa? If you need a man to fix things, you can hire one of those handyman services. By the looks of the ads, they're all good looking and walk around with bare chests glistening in the sunlight, while they screw in light bulbs and tinker with cabinet doors. That could be entertaining for a single woman, and nonthreatening, since I think they leave after a little while.  (I may have carried that scenario a bit too far....  )
I'd much rather have a female roommate. Or none at all. If I want company, I can go to the mall with my friends.
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"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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02-12-2009, 07:20 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
pass the movie theater butter please, thank you!
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It isn't when it gets livened up 
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I bet you enjoy getting people all worked up over this topic!  I must say it has been entertaining to say the least... and I didn't think that you actually meant YOU would share a place with someone... I understood ya at the beginning... but it has been entertaining!
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02-12-2009, 07:32 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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pass the movie theater butter please, thank you!
I bet you enjoy getting people all worked up over this topic!  I must say it has been entertaining to say the least... and I didn't think that you actually meant YOU would share a place with someone... I understood ya at the beginning... but it has been entertaining! 
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Thank you Lady Chocolate...then I have been successful in getting us to look at this question that many people have in our present culture!
I enjoy your posts.
Blessings, Rhoni
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02-12-2009, 07:34 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Thank you Lady Chocolate...then I have been successful in getting us to look at this question that many people have in our present culture!
I enjoy your posts.
Blessings, Rhoni
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I'm not sure anyone has that question. The world just does it and the church just doesn't.
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02-12-2009, 07:35 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Well, to speak generally about a general thread  , I vote NO!!!!!
Someone will assume you're living together in the biblical sense, and then you'll have to spend unnecessary time setting the record straight and most still won't believe you.
Now if an older woman (I'm thinking a SENIOR--65+) rented a room to a much younger man (30 or younger?), that MIGHT be okay.
Or if you rent a garage apartment to someone....
But living together in the same house? Well, first of all, why would anyone want to? Honestly? No offense to the guys, but most men are messy, sloppy, eat all the food in the fridge, they burp, pass gas, etc. Yeah, almost ALL of them do--in their own homes!!!!!! LOL!!!! So why would you willingly take one of them on for any other reason than they're your son or your husband? Or brother or father? Or Grandpa? If you need a man to fix things, you can hire one of those handyman services. By the looks of the ads, they're all good looking and walk around with bare chests glistening in the sunlight, while they screw in light bulbs and tinker with cabinet doors. That could be entertaining for a single woman, and nonthreatening, since I think they leave after a little while.  (I may have carried that scenario a bit too far....  )
I'd much rather have a female roommate. Or none at all. If I want company, I can go to the mall with my friends. 
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Sis,
In my family - it is the guys who are much more neat and clean than the women...except for me of course  . The generalization doesn't apply to all. At JCM, I remember the women's dorms being left in much worse shape than the Men's dorm when classes were over.
Blessings, Rhoni
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02-12-2009, 07:37 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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I'm not sure anyone has that question. The world just does it and the church just doesn't.
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Actually Renda, I have talked to many single's groups and the Apostolic single women question this as they would much rather prefer a male roommate than a woman one. Jealousies, hormones, and territory are women's issues primarily. Women also feel safer with a man in the house than a woman.
Blessigns, Rhoni
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02-12-2009, 07:39 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by MissBrattified
Well, to speak generally about a general thread  , I vote NO!!!!!
Someone will assume you're living together in the biblical sense, and then you'll have to spend unnecessary time setting the record straight and most still won't believe you.
Now if an older woman (I'm thinking a SENIOR--65+) rented a room to a much younger man (30 or younger?), that MIGHT be okay.
Or if you rent a garage apartment to someone....
But living together in the same house? Well, first of all, why would anyone want to? Honestly? No offense to the guys, but most men are messy, sloppy, eat all the food in the fridge, they burp, pass gas, etc. Yeah, almost ALL of them do--in their own homes!!!!!! LOL!!!! So why would you willingly take one of them on for any other reason than they're your son or your husband? Or brother or father? Or Grandpa? If you need a man to fix things, you can hire one of those handyman services. By the looks of the ads, they're all good looking and walk around with bare chests glistening in the sunlight, while they screw in light bulbs and tinker with cabinet doors. That could be entertaining for a single woman, and nonthreatening, since I think they leave after a little while.  (I may have carried that scenario a bit too far....  )
I'd much rather have a female roommate. Or none at all. If I want company, I can go to the mall with my friends. 
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I've seen you write some very "interesting" posts but I believe this has to be the best of all. 
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02-12-2009, 07:40 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
Sis,
In my family - it is the guys who are much more neat and clean than the women...except for me of course  . The generalization doesn't apply to all. At JCM, I remember the women's dorms being left in much worse shape than the Men's dorm when classes were over.
Blessings, Rhoni
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Well, of course there are exceptions. My husband is very neat and clean and organized and well-mannered! Jeff gets mad if the kids burp at the table--because he never does that!  He still opens doors for me after nearly 14 yrs. of marriage.
But generally speaking...I would not purposely pick a man to be my roommate.
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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02-12-2009, 07:41 AM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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