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Old 11-07-2012, 02:56 PM
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I never said the pastor should ignore the 80%. You pulled a quote off Wikipedia to accuse me of ignoring the other 80%.

Making up things then jumping to faulty conclusions on the fabrications shows how weak your argument is.
You brought that upon yourself by even comparing a so-called scientific study to the spiritual.

Instead of communicating your thoughts in the beginning about how to minister to people using that Pareto principle, you leave it wide open for speculation, then accuse me of deliberately coming to a faulty conclusion. How's that for sabotage on your part? Try explaining your thoughts accurately so that there is no misunderstanding. Try asking...are you misunderstanding what I am saying instead of accusing me of 'deliberately twisting' something you haven't made clear to begin with.

Are you a pastor?

Do you preach and take a tithe?

Do you espouse Oneness doctrine?

Do the people you disciple go out and take to themselves people to teach?

All these questions are relevant to how I answer. Perhaps I just assumed you to be all of the above?

For the record, this wasn't a wikipedia article. You have not read the article at all did you? And if you are going to use someone else's principle or a rule to explain something, don't you think the burden of how someone perceives your thought process should come from you? A little clip of info here or there, leaving out your true intentions of what you are thinking is not the way to communicate.


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People have the right to kill unborn babies, but that doesn't make it morally right. The Bible says gossip is murder.

How is voicing you opinion on AFF going to help your "close loved one" decide which OP church to attend? I doubt your close loved one visit this forum. If they do, they already know how warped OP can be. If your close loved one doesn't check out your comments on AFF it's a moot point. Then all you have to do is suggest other OP churches. If you don't plan to spill the beans to the close loved one, there is no need to continue to encourage the bloodshed with fellow believers.
If the person who started this thread had not done so, we wouldn't know the terrible conflict going on at TPC now, would we? We wouldn't know that the people are being run over roughshod by the leadership in that church by not discussing what happened with the members. Do you think that it is ok for that to happen? Are you suggesting that it is to be swept under the rug? There is no "bloodshed" going on with fellow believers here. From all that I read, the facts are coming out on what happened there. Since when does facts about a situation become gossip? Sometimes public opinion keeps a minister on the straight and narrow. And no...scripturally... correction does not come from the top down. The leadership turned that one around. Scripturally, the leadership is to let the least esteemed of the church to judge. In fact, when Acts is thoroughly read, you will find that the Apostles counted themselves among the brethren.

We all seen what happened to one sister in Georgia when she let the leadership handle her situation. She is the true victim in that case. TB is not a victim in this case. Eight hundred members of that church are the victims.

More harm to a local assembly comes when their 'leadership' is not forthcoming and truthful to them. More harm is coming to them because the 'leadership' has not been spiritually and financially truthful to them. That deception is ripping them to shreds more than this forum discussion is harming them.
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Old 11-07-2012, 03:11 PM
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My Gosh tv1a and Are You Ready---could you debate via PM???? You fill up all the space!!!
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Old 11-07-2012, 03:16 PM
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My Gosh tv1a and Are You Ready---could you debate via PM???? You fill up all the space!!!
Ha ha ha! Deacon, I would not have a PM conversation or debate with tv1a.

He can quit with the derogatory terms and accusations and I won't respond to him anymore.
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Old 11-07-2012, 06:56 PM
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Old 11-07-2012, 09:58 PM
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My Gosh tv1a and Are You Ready---could you debate via PM???? You fill up all the space!!!
Deacon, Hush....

Are You Ready,

Don't you dare PM this stuff... It needs to be HEARD...by the multitudes!!
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Old 11-08-2012, 06:09 AM
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Re: Prominent Memphis Area Pastor Resigns

God has a way of taking our mess and turning it into a message. A very eloquent brother made a valid point to me. The cross looked like defeat. However, it was a vehicle to usher in Pentecost. God declared literally in Genesis, and prophetically towards the church: "let there be light".

The church still belongs to the Lord. There will be purging, healing....and Memphis will have revival! Revival will happen because the people of God (self included) are embarking on a fresh vision that includes fasting, prayer, healing, repentance. I believe a revival will blow up through TPC AND other Apostolic truth believing churches. Not a 10,000 member mega church with vanity and egos and the room for satan to play the race, economic, and other divisive cards. No. How about 20 churches planted with 500 members across the city? What a vision a brother recently shared!

Revival. Let it begin in me. Now that information is before me, the hurt is there, and I don't have answers to "why", one thing is certain. Yet will I trust him!

Memphis...the devil tried it again. Pray for those that fell, for families that left. Let's continue to heal, and lets have revival!!!

TB is not God. Let's move on....
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:34 AM
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Re: Prominent Memphis Area Pastor Resigns

what about the post that said this had been a problem in the past in memphis (adultery) did they mean in leadership or saints ? saints i could understand the numbers are against you, but leadership, pastoral or otherwise ?
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You say in one post you shouldn't have to go into detail. But twist what I say, even when I clearly explained the terminoloigy. If you honestly believe everyone speaks on God's behalf, we'll hook you up with Transparant, or Bill Price. God hasn't called everyone to nit-pick about problems that don't affect you. If you are so concerned about OP image, try putting out fires instead of puring gas on the flame.

A few blatent misconceptions I will clear up again,
1. People who are in the 20% of an organization are not randomly chosen. The 20% sets themselves apart to where they get into the inner circle. That's in any organization. It's not the systems fault OP's don't empower the saints. OP's may get better results if they spent more time being like Jesus and less time trying to convince people their perceptions og Christ.

2. Jesus focused more on the 70 than the 5000. Jesus spent more time with 12 than 70. Jesus spent more time with the big three, Peter, James, and John. Can't argue with the results. They did better their first sermon than Jesus did on his first sermon. Teacher taught students well.
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I've done a of research, college papers, reports, speeches about 80/20 rule. I have books which deal with the 80/20 principle. So it's more than cutting and pasting something googled off the internet.

Jesus wasn't a pacifist. He told someone whoi made excuses not to be in the inner circle to let the dead bury the dead. He called a woman a dog. Christ tole the pharisees the devil was their daddy. He had little tolerance for religiosity. The same Christ was loving and compassionate for the underdog. That's why he taught His disciples who in turn taught others.

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Ha ha ha! Deacon, I would not have a PM conversation or debate with tv1a.

He can quit with the derogatory terms and accusations and I won't respond to him anymore.
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No need to pm because the op gossip train will eventually publicize the comments.

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Deacon, Hush....

Are You Ready,

Don't you dare PM this stuff... It needs to be HEARD...by the multitudes!!
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