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Old 11-06-2012, 07:17 AM
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Re: Prominent Memphis Area Pastor Resigns

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Are you saying he should only post pictures on his FB page that show him in anguish and wearing sackcloth and ashes? Maybe have the letter "A" sewed to the front of all his suits? How about an "L" put on his forehead with ashes?

I don't believe he should pastor, and that is what has happened. After that, what he does with his life and how he dresses or looks is in God's hands.
Standing in the pulpit, in front of the community of believers who trusted that he was an honorable man of God, calling people "jackals" who opposed him, gives us an indication of the spirit behind the man.

That picture showed the look of a man full of himself. Sorry if that is judging a book by it's cover, but he looks cocky to me.
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Old 11-06-2012, 10:10 AM
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Standing in the pulpit, in front of the community of believers who trusted that he was an honorable man of God, calling people "jackals" who opposed him, gives us an indication of the spirit behind the man.

That picture showed the look of a man full of himself. Sorry if that is judging a book by it's cover, but he looks cocky to me.

I believe TB lived a life for many years that was honorable and above board. I also think that over time without fully realizing it, that he was susciptible to the things he preached so hard against and when he fell, he fell hard. I have no idea of his current condition of the heart but he may very well have decided at some point to go all out in the flesh. He should have walked away at that point.

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Old 11-06-2012, 10:15 AM
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Re: Prominent Memphis Area Pastor Resigns

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Are you saying he should only post pictures on his FB page that show him in anguish and wearing sackcloth and ashes? Maybe have the letter "A" sewed to the front of all his suits? How about an "L" put on his forehead with ashes?

I don't believe he should pastor, and that is what has happened. After that, what he does with his life and how he dresses or looks is in God's hands.
Considering he is fighting, through arbitration, to get his $250,000 severance package from the church that he left practically broke, I would say that him bouncing on and off of FB(which btw, he took down his page almost immediately after changing his profile picture AGAIN last night) knowing that most everyone who is a member of TPC is on his friends list, so everytime he reactivates his account and changes his profile picture, we all get notifications from it. So we see the smug look on his face, totally in becoming of a man of God. So what he does actually is still affecting the church.
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Old 11-06-2012, 10:26 AM
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Considering he is fighting, through arbitration, to get his $250,000 severance package from the church that he left practically broke, I would say that him bouncing on and off of FB(which btw, he took down his page almost immediately after changing his profile picture AGAIN last night) knowing that most everyone who is a member of TPC is on his friends list, so everytime he reactivates his account and changes his profile picture, we all get notifications from it. So we see the smug look on his face, totally in becoming of a man of God. So what he does actually is still affecting the church.
Why would they owe him a dime?
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Old 11-06-2012, 11:42 AM
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You logic is faulty on many levels. Its called the 80/20 rule. You make it sound like it is all or nothing. Do you know the difference between discipleship with evangelism? Jesus said many are called but few are chosen. Christ said the fields are ready but the workers are few. The Bible is full of examples of the few conquoring the many.

No one is dismissing the 80 percent. It's not an either or proposition. Spending 80% of your time with the 20% who will maximize the results still leaves you 20% of your time to work with the 80%.

Some of the ways to increase the number of productive members is small groups and new member assimilation. Small groups and new member courses increases the chance of adding more to the 20 percent.

The religious application of 80/20 is to disciple the few to reach the masses. Anyone left behind is left because they don't want to be involved.

Another Biblical principle indirectly supporting 80/20 is if one puts 1,000 to flight, 2 puts 10,000 to flight. Principle remains few can impact many.

Another key point you miss in the equation is 80/20 is a percentage. That means the real numbers varies. Easy math. 20% of 10 is 2, of 100 is 20, of 1,000 is 200. The disciples were a clique. Peter, James, and John were too busy praying, studying and preaching to take care of the widows. The found 12 men. One was Stephen, the other Phillip. One had an impact on Paul. The other impacted Samaria and Ethiopia.


The 80/20 principle can and often expands just like your tithe increases with a pay raise.

The Memphis Mess is only your problem if you make it your problem. TB is a big fish in a little fish tank. Sticking your nose in someone else's fish tak doesn't help the situation. Did the church in Galatia put the two sense in about the freak fest in Corinth. No they didn't. The unfortunate events in Memphis exposes the sharks disguised as sheep. I doubt half the people in your circle of influence know of TB. It's barely a ripple in world of christiandom. I'm certain your opinion of second hand info will do a lot to help the healing.



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Here comes the lecture from you.

Let me tell you something. When people deliberately fail God, it reverberates for hundreds of miles around and does not stay in one little place. Is the entire body of Christ in Memphis? No, but what happens in Memphis affects those in NY, or CA. If you feel it is none of your business then you should stay out of it.




I seriously doubt that Christ was out to prove a 80/20 principle when He chose the 70 among the thousands. Christ looked for the right conditions in each of the men's hearts.

If you are going to teach 80/20 principles, then you are into extrabiblical curriculum. We are to teach Christ's principles.

So are you trying to equate yourself with Jesus so you think that you can dismiss the 80% in your church system and describe them with derogatory names?

That is not a Christ-like attitude.
Christ mainly rebuked the leadership of that day. The Pharisees and Saducees earned his rebukes, and rightly so.

Matthew 23:1 Then spake Jesus to the multitude, and to his disciples,
2 Saying, The scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses' seat:
3 All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works: for they say, and do not.
4 For they bind heavy burdens and grievous to be borne, and lay them on men's shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with one of their fingers.
5 But all their works they do for to be seen of men: they make broad their phylacteries, and enlarge the borders of their garments,
6 And love the uppermost rooms at feasts, and the chief seats in the synagogues,
7 And greetings in the markets, and to be called of men, Rabbi, Rabbi.
8 But be not ye called Rabbi: for one is your Master, even Christ; and all ye are brethren.
9 And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven.
10 Neither be ye called masters: for one is your Master, even Christ.
11 But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.
12 And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.
13 ¶But woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye shut up the kingdom of heaven against men: for ye neither go in yourselves, neither suffer ye them that are entering to go in.
14 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye devour widows' houses, and for a pretence make long prayer: therefore ye shall receive the greater damnation.
15 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye compass sea and land to make one proselyte, and when he is made, ye make him twofold more the child of hell than yourselves.
16 Woe unto you, ye blind guides, which say, Whosoever shall swear by the temple, it is nothing; but whosoever shall swear by the gold of the temple, he is a debtor!
17 Ye fools and blind: for whether is greater, the gold, or the temple that sanctifieth the gold?
18 And, Whosoever shall swear by the altar, it is nothing; but whosoever sweareth by the gift that is upon it, he is guilty.
19 Ye fools and blind: for whether is greater, the gift, or the altar that sanctifieth the gift?
20 Whoso therefore shall swear by the altar, sweareth by it, and by all things thereon.
21 And whoso shall swear by the temple, sweareth by it, and by him that dwelleth therein.
22 And he that shall swear by heaven, sweareth by the throne of God, and by him that sitteth thereon.
23 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment, mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone.
24 Ye blind guides, which strain at a gnat, and swallow a camel.
25 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye make clean the outside of the cup and of the platter, but within they are full of extortion and excess. [standards?]
26 Thou blind Pharisee, cleanse first that which is within the cup and platter, that the outside of them may be clean also.
27 Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye are like unto whited sepulchres, which indeed appear beautiful outward, but are within full of dead men's bones, and of all uncleanness.
28 Even so ye also outwardly appear righteous unto men, but within ye are full of hypocrisy and iniquity.





And you do not tell me what my job is. Christ does. So don't make the mistake of thinking that you have that authority. You don't.

Let's be real here. The disciples many ministers think that they make do not end up interacting with the multitudes. Let's take a look at the type of people Christ made for disciples.

Peter: He was a fisherman from Capernaum
Andrew: He was Peter's brother and fishing partner; John's gospel says that Andrew was first a disciple of John the Baptist.
James: He was son of Zebedee and a fisherman from Capernaum.
John: He was James's brother and partner in the family fishing business.
Philip: He was from Bethsaida, another town on the coast of the Sea of Galilee.
Bartholomew: Not much is known from the scriptures about him.
Matthew: He's called a toll collector in Matthew's gospel.
Thomas: Went down in history as 'doubting Thomas' because he did not believe Christ was risen.
James: This man, who was the son of Alphaeus, was called in later tradition "James the Less" — not to be confused with James the Great or James brother of Jesus (James was obviously a popular name at the time!).
Simon: He was called "the Cananean" (which means "zealous" or "jealous" in Aramaic)
Thaddeus: There's a bit of controversy when it comes to this 11th disciple. In Mark and Matthew, he's called Thaddeus. Luke, on the other hand, calls this man Jude, son of James.
Judas Iscariot: The betrayer of Christ.

Most of these men were not of great esteem at all. Fishermen, publican, a skeptic. Was Judas among the 'outstanding 20%' ? No. Jesus knew what was in Judas when he picked him to be his disciple. He knew that Judas was going to fulfill God's will for Christ to give his life for many. So that alone blows your theory out of the water.

There is not much difference between the leadership of that day and the leadership of today. Many of them (but not all) put themselves into a special class above the people. They sit on a seat which is on an elevated platform above the people. They demand a portion of their hard earned money. Around here, they have minister dinners, served to them by the saints, in private and only ministers are invited.




The whole 80/20 suggestion you make is faulty. I ended up calling it nonsense in my last post.

Peter said whosoever will...and to those a far off...not 20 percent. That means Jesus calls millions, but who can put a percentage on how many give their lives to God? And who can decide for another what God wants them to do for Him? Only God has that perogative.

No one is suggesting to make irrational rushes to judgement with the poor? You did. You call them trailer trash. It is this mindset that I take exception to. I wonder if you will cozy up to the man who comes into the sanctuary wearing his best Sunday clothing while you would try to hide the "trailer trash" somewhere.

Do not think that you had some sort of epiphany of a scientific observation. In 40 years I have not seen your 80/20 rule actually succeed in action. If a pastor actually managed to turn 20 percent of his congregation into 'disciples', they ended up being in an exclusive clique within the church system and won't get their spiritual hands dirty with the serfs that attend in the congregation.

Sorry. But that has been my experience in the organized church system.
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Old 11-06-2012, 12:41 PM
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When will this reach 100,000 views? My guess: Nov 12.
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Old 11-06-2012, 02:17 PM
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Considering he is fighting, through arbitration, to get his $250,000 severance package from the church that he left practically broke, I would say that him bouncing on and off of FB(which btw, he took down his page almost immediately after changing his profile picture AGAIN last night) knowing that most everyone who is a member of TPC is on his friends list, so everytime he reactivates his account and changes his profile picture, we all get notifications from it. So we see the smug look on his face, totally in becoming of a man of God. So what he does actually is still affecting the church.

My thoughts are that he might not be activating his account to prove a point to the church ppl but its possible he's attempting to open a new account with new friends but he doesn't know how to do it..just a thought...
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Old 11-06-2012, 02:43 PM
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i didnt see the pic as being smug more like dead pan i dont see him driving a beemer as being outrageous they aint that expensive are they?, no different than a caddy. now if it was a mercedes 600 sl or something else in excess of 100/ 120 thou ok, besides you can lease them pretty cheap too.
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Old 11-06-2012, 02:45 PM
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Re: Prominent Memphis Area Pastor Resigns

A severance package????? Am I missing something here?
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Sad...sad...I have worked 44 years the church owes me nothing....
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