Downward Spiral

[MawMaw]

How in the world does anyone walk in shoes with such high heels??
And they sure can't be comfy!

[Amanah]

Originally Posted by warrior

This is a good example, minus the fish.

she will most likely trip and break her neck soon and that will solve the problem.

[scotty]

Originally Posted by Aquila

If you don't mind, what district is this church in?

She it was an independant church .

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by Praxeas

A Pastors wife becoming his co-pastor does NOT prevent the "one man band operational tyrant" at all. In fact it could create a huge conflict of interest to not have a non-family member be in that position

Bingo! family runned churches can be a worse problem then one man show. Let me add there is no such thing has a copastor.

[MawMaw]

Originally Posted by warrior

Praise the Lord,

Lately I have been noticing some things about my church that have made me very concerned. Its seems that my church has become more focused on money than ministry and true salvation. The focus has become the new day care center and the latest rennovations. The "FIRST LADY" is always inappropriately dressed. Her skirts are way too short as she reveals her long legs in hooker like shoes. I was told that she and the pastor have been seen in a local bar.
Next, it seems like we will have a pastor and co-pastor soon. The co-pastor will of course be his wife.

I am very sadened by what my church is becoming. I just don't know what I will do.

Really Concerned

My opinion for what it is worth........

I cannot imagine my own sweet young pastor's wife dressing in really short skirts.

Actually, I cannot imagine any respectable pastor's wife, wearing really short skirts.

I was at a sick relatives house the other day and a preacher and his wife came in to visit. She had on extremely tight blue jeans, with a form fitting sweater which, to me looks just as bad as the mini skirt.

If a person is truly wanting to be a representative of Jesus Christ......it is not hard to look at yourself in a mirror before going out in public and being able to tell if you look modest or not.

Anyway, Sis Warrior, I will be praying with you about the decision your are facing.

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by warrior

Truthfully, they are young in pastoralship. She has been dressing this way for sometime. At one point, it seemed like the situation with her attire was improving but now it is always inappropriate. She wears skirts way above the knee and 5-6 inch high heel shoes.

Her being co-pastor is a problem for me because she hasn't even been given the authority and she has become very authoritative and controlling. She is handeling everything. I've gotten to the point that I don't want to do anything because she has implemented a lot of red tape to do everything. Not to mention, she has a terrible attitude. Really, it has become a one woman show.

If true and I was there. i would hit the road. I want someone my kids can look up to.

[Apocrypha]

There are tens of thousands of churches in America. If you want something different then vote with your feet. I guarantee the majority of other churches you visit won't tell you to go back to where you came from, in fact they will welcome you with a smile.

[kclee4jc]

You should find a good, conservative, truth preaching Apostolic Church....thats my vote anyway :-)

[houston]

Originally Posted by kclee4jc

You should find a good, conservative, truth preaching Apostolic Church....thats my vote anyway :-)

TPANSLATION: Attend a church where you submit to a list of rules given by the pastor. Rules with no biblical basis.

[seekerman]

"Her skirts are way too short as she reveals her long legs in hooker like shoes."

My mind started drifting when I read that.










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