Consider the following verses:
Acts 2:17
And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your
daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams:
Acts 21:8-10
8And the next day we that were of Paul's company departed, and came unto Caesarea: and we entered into the house of Philip the evangelist, which was one of the seven; and abode with him. 9And
the same man had four daughters, virgins, which did prophesy. 10And as we tarried there many days, there came down from Judaea a certain prophet, named Agabus.
Acts 18:26
And he began to speak boldly in the synagogue: whom when Aquila and Priscilla had heard,
they took him unto them, and expounded unto him the way of God more perfectly.
1 Corinthians 16:19
The churches of Asia salute you. Aquila and Priscilla salute you much in the Lord, with
the church that is in their house.
We see by this that women indeed can “prophesy”, teach, and assist with administration of the church. They key is primarily being under the authority of a male bishop or her husband. A woman must simply serve under the authority of a male so as to not upset God’s order.
It’s important to realize that Paul was often addressing “issues” of interruption and speaking or using one’s spiritual gifts improperly. Women are admonished not to interrupt teaching in the church but rather if they have questions they are to ask their husbands at home. First, this prevents the teacher from being interrupted. Second, this saves the fragile egos of the men involved from having to “defend” a position questioned by a woman. Thirdly, this instills respect in the church for the preacher. Fourthly, it establishes the husband as the spiritual head and teacher of the home.
Paul isn’t forbidding women from using their spiritual gifts. Paul is simply putting things in order. The only restriction I can see is that a woman cannot serve as a “bishop” (pastor). Woman can even serve as deacons (servants and staff):
Romans 16:1
I commend unto you Phebe our sister, which is a
servant of the church which is at Cenchrea:
The word “servant” translates “deaconess.”