14 But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.
KJV
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Not having to use extras from the "toy box", so to speak, is the ultimate in a partner, IMO. That is being "totally" in tune with each other. Of course, beautiful lingerie is not a "toy box" item either, also my opinion. Just my two cents.
I just thought of that Carly Simon song:
Nobody does it better
Makes me feel sad for the rest
Nobody does it half as good as you
Baby, you're the best
Love that song!!
LOL - - of course it is.......if you were totally in tune with your partner you wouldn't need to entice him with frilly things!
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I think the answer to some of these questions would be whatever takes place - it needs to be agreed upon by both spouses. Nothing should ever be forced.
The topics have wandered from the original posting which all threads tend to do. I think we'll allowed some to push the boundries.
Not having to use extras from the "toy box", so to speak, is the ultimate in a partner, IMO. That is being "totally" in tune with each other. Of course, beautiful lingerie is not a "toy box" item either, also my opinion. Just my two cents.
I just thought of that Carly Simon song:
Nobody does it better
Makes me feel sad for the rest
Nobody does it half as good as you
Baby, you're the best
Love that song!!
But like Heaven above me, the spy who loved me
Is keeping all my secrets safe tonight
I'm not refering to bedroom attire, but role playing by acting out scenarios such as pretending man is having affair with the maid, mail lady, doctor, nurse etc.....
Playing patient doctor is not just attire but acting out a sinful act.
My point of view: For a woman that has a tendency toward "jealousy" and "competitiveness" toward her man, this would not work very well, IMO. Ask me? I am just that kind of woman! And it doesn't bother me one bit.
If you want to be intimate with a French maid, leave the keys to the house because it won't belong to you anymore - after I contact my lawyer. At that point, everything you have worked for now belongs to me!