Ministries for women porn addicts

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by Aquila

Would a couple be sinning if they pretended to be King David and one of his new concubines?

King David had 8 wives and 10 concubines by the way. God stated that he gave David his wives and concubines. David's only sin of this nature was his adultery with Bathsheba. Who by the way became the first lady of Israel and the mother of Solomon.

I do agree... some games are over the top if they involve pain or prostitution. But some games are permissible and should be kept between spouses.

I married my wife, not a concubine, mail lady, maid or mild lady etc....

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

I married my wife, not a concubine, mail lady, maid or mild lady etc....

I can respect that. But do you think it's a "sin" that endangers the human soul if a couple finds their love more adventurous than you do?

Many a wife has surprised her husband with a French Maid outfit to rekindle lost intimacy. The marriage bed is like "Eden"... be innocent and play like children, reveling in one another's love and passion. Did they "sin"?

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by Aquila

I can respect that. But do you think it's a "sin" that endangers the human soul if a couple finds their love more adventurous than you do?

Many a wife has surprised her husband with a French Maid outfit to rekindle lost intimacy. The marriage bed is like "Eden"... be innocent and play like children, reveling in one another's love and passion. Did they "sin"?

Is it sin to be with a french maid? Yes!

Then would it be sin to lust after one? Yes!

Would it be sin to fantasize about being with a french maid? Yes

Would it be sin to act out the fantasy? YES!

Maybe men need a class on contentment on what God has provided.

[nahkoe]

Originally Posted by Aquila

Ladies please remember...men are men. You'll never understand us... and I think a wise man gives up trying to understand women sooner than later. lol

And the thread was originally about women porn addicts. But you seem to have opinions about that. Have you ever been a woman porn addict?

[nahkoe]

Originally Posted by Aquila

I do agree... some games are over the top if they involve pain or prostitution. But some games are permissible and should be kept between spouses.

What makes them over the top? Why is bondage ok, but pain isn't?

[RandyWayne]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

Is it sin to be with a french maid? Yes!

Then would it be sin to lust after one? Yes!

Would it be sin to fantasize about being with a french maid? Yes

Would it be sin to act out the fantasy? YES!

Maybe men need a class on contentment on what God has provided.

What if your wife IS a French Maid?

Or a doctor? That lab coat is just...... rrrrrrrroooaaarrrrrr!

And furthermore, does the light need to be out? Or does it create unnecessary lust in the carnal male mind?

[Truthseeker]

Originally Posted by RandyWayne

What if your wife IS a French Maid?

Or a doctor? That lab coat is just...... rrrrrrrroooaaarrrrrr!

And furthermore, does the light need to be out? Or does it create unnecessary lust in the carnal male mind?

depends if acting out affair with doctor/maid.

What if a mate wants to imagine being with someone else while with mate, is that approriate? I know someone who asked his wife if he could call her someone else during intimacy. I guess this would be ok since it's just make believe like kids playing cops and robbers.

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by Truthseeker

Is it sin to be with a french maid? Yes!

Then would it be sin to lust after one? Yes!

Not if your wife's a French maid.

Would it be sin to fantasize about being with a french maid? Yes

Not if your imagining that your wife is a French maid.

Would it be sin to act out the fantasy? YES!

What's the difference between fantasizing about your wife in an apron and your wife dressed up provocatively?

Maybe men need a class on contentment on what God has provided.

What if God provided you a wife who enjoys dressing provocatively?

I'm not saying that it's okay to pretend she's a French maid and not your wife...that would be sin. But if your wife is just dressing up to take your breath away, where's the sin? She might wear any number of items... but for some reason a French maid outfit is "sin"? Remember, "sin" can send you to Hell. Something doesn't wash with me. Are you saying it's wrong for her to wear anything?

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by nahkoe

And the thread was originally about women porn addicts. But you seem to have opinions about that. Have you ever been a woman porn addict?

lol No.

But my point is primarily, some folks are indeed addicts and need serious prayer and counsel. Others aren't "addicts". Some just have healthy interest that has to be channeled into their marriages or something more constructive.

[Aquila]

Originally Posted by nahkoe

What makes them over the top? Why is bondage ok, but pain isn't?

Depends on what you mean? It's not uncommon for a man to hold his wife down by the wrists. Is that wrong too...even if it enhances the act for her?

Please note, it's about sensory deprivation. The inability to move is the relinquishment of control, submission, to one's mate. Often it fulfills a very important need... a need to be surrendered to the one you love and trust.