Why am I labeled backslid and unusable by God

[Jeffrey]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

Well, the truth is, we don't know you, don't know how you acted, who you talked to and what you talked about - as a leader.

I just don't see how you, as a leader, could think some people, who hold their beliefs so strongly, would think they would pat you on the back for your decision. This is part of their truth they cling to as a consecration in their service to God. It's just as much a part of them as being spirit filled.

You are, in effect, saying, "Hey, it's just not necessary, folks." It's almost a slap in the face to some. That is a startling realization to them. It's a lie to them.

I would focus more on their thought pattern than their actions. It's really the only way to remain compassionate, on your part, in this situation. It's like, in a way, analyzing why a child is acting out. Find out what is wrong so you can best understand how to deal with them.

If I know about the love of Christ, then I know that I must love and pray for them anyway, regardless of what they are doing to me. I think you have said you have and are doing that. There is nothing else you can do. And we are praying with you.

And the folks being mean, they need to have more confidence that God loves more than they ever could and if you are wrong, you need to find out for yourself. I'm not saying you are making a mistake, I'm just saying that we need to allow people to have room to make mistakes. Some people must find out for themselves and we need to allow it to happen. Not encouraging mistakes, but knowing some personalities must test and try the waters. If we hold them, their inner struggle will only increase. It's like a puppy that wants to get off of your lap and run. He will wiggle and wiggle until you let him go.

And I'm with Ferd, just because we don't talk about things, doesn't mean we haven't experienced or felt hurt, pain and rejection. I could tell you some stories, but I don't need to. I will tell you this, I have prayed this prayer, "Jesus, please help me not to hate." I fear anger and hate more than anything in this world. It is an awful spawn.

In every situation, I went to God and He loved me, comforted me, and showed me how to keep walking. He is altogether lovely!

So what did he do 'wrong' in your critical estimation: talking about it? Complaining to us? Leaving in the first place? Not sure of the ire he's drawn from some of you. As much as you question him, I question that all the more.