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Originally Posted by MissBrattified
I think that it doesn't matter, unless it matters to your husband, and then you might have to reach some sort of agreement or compromise. My husband is fine with me voting as I see fit, and he doesn't feel threatened if I disagree with him. If I voted for Hillary, he'd probably question me and wonder if I'd backslid, but he still wouldn't try to make me vote the same as he does.
I suppose if your husband has a problem with it, then you have to address it. If BOOM doesn't mind, then you shouldn't worry about it.  Every relationship has different areas of agreement and compromise.
I wouldn't want Jeff to buy the groceries and plan and cook our family meals. In fact, I'd probably get mad at him if he tried to "take over" my domain (the kitchen). I don't want him telling me what we're going to have for dinner, either. I plan all that out carefully, and do my best to appease everyone. That doesn't mean I'm a feminist...does it?  Since I don't ask his permission to cook veal for Wednesday dinner?
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We usually discuss it and decide together how we are going to vote, and we have not always voted for the same person.
While I was gone visiting my parents BOOM stated that when I came back he was going to have MY kitchen all rearranged. But you know what? He didn't dare. Everything was pretty much they way I left it. lol He knows where my territory begins. He gets a little corner of the kitchen that is his domain which is the coffee corner, that's his--the rest is mine. lol