Divorce?
My husband and I have been together for about 8 years. We met at a UPCI church and he has been back maybe twice since then and refuses to go to church and told me that he doesn't really believe in God about 6 months ago.
He cleans absolutely nothing, not even cleaning up after himself but will just put trash on the table next to the trash can and just seems to refuse to throw anything away or clean anything up. He does no laundry or dishes at all.
He takes a shower about once a month. It used to be like once a week and for a time he was working at Wendy's and took a shower every day then but its just gotten worse over time.
He does work a regular 40 hour week at a pretty good job just like I do but from the moment he gets home till he goes to sleep, he sits at his computer and plays video games. He eats at his computer and occasionally we will go out or we will watch a show together but that's it.
Anytime I mention anything about cleaning or showering or anything like that it leads to a big fight and we don't speak for hours after that.
He would never EVER go to counseling. I love him so much but I just don't know what to do anymore...
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