I always enjoyed the friendly date. When you feel the moment is right, do this:
You: Are you thinking about kissing me???
Her: What???
You: It just looked like you were thinking about something.
Her: Not kissing you! lol
You: Well, you are now. Do you want to kiss me?
At this point she has several possible answers. And here are possible actions for you to take:
Yes - Kiss her.
Maybe - Say, "Let's find out." then kiss her.
No - If she's smiling and glances to the side when she says this, smile, call her a liar, and kiss her.
No - If she's smiling and looking you in the eyes, she's challenging your wit, say something witty or humorous. Leave a second attempt for later.
No - Not smiling, looking into your eyes, or at cell phone. Body language creates barriers or establishes distance...don't kiss her. Put her in the "friend zone" on this date and share A LITTLE more about yourself, but allow her to do most of the talking. Must build comfort factor.
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