Nuggets from Neck on The Marriage Relationship

[Neck]

(Note from Renda - these nuggets were posted in the other thread and I realize many aren't interested in reading that thread, however, these posts are too good to be missed.)



The conversation being discussed on this thread.

Is one of or if not the most personal and defining intimate conversation between husband and wife or wife and husband.

While working in sales over the years, I have heard it all.

Men bragging and just talking about all sorts of adventures with their wives, girlfriends and extra marriage experiences.

In all of those years, I have wondered why these men talk so freely about these things?

Are they bragging? Are they missing the boat? Are they wanting to justify themselves?

To me it is a form of intimacy cheating on their spouse.

Relations with a spouse are personal, honest, pure, loving, mutual, caring, respectful, spiritual (in a non salvational sense), memorable and the last mile of intimacy.

Way to many people invite their extended family, friends and others into this intimacy.

This place of intimacy is one that no other individual should ever have an open door.

Long before 2 people cheat in the act.

They cheat in the doorway of adultery.

These men and woman share these intimate thouughts, desires etc.

With others because they do not have a pure intimacy with their spouse.

I would not share with anyone on this forum what I am against or for in my marriage.

What I do know is an abomination in the eyes of God in my marriage.

Is acting outside my marriage and intimacy bond.

My wife has also heard it all from her friends over the years.

This bond needs to built on the trust of ultimate intimacy....