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Old 02-02-2011, 06:53 PM
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What should our response be, as Christians, when someone fails?

Proverbs 24:17 Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth:

This scripture not only addresses actions, but attitude; don't be secretly smug or happy about it when your enemy makes a mistake or "falls."

Galatians 6:1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.

Our response should be rather to restore such a person in a spirit of meekness, knowing that we're all made of the same fallible flesh.

Further, don't do anything that would put an obstacle in a person's way to recovery, rehabilitation or repentance.

Be a hand reaching out, not the foot pressing a person's head to the floor.
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What should our response be, as Christians, when someone fails?

Proverbs 24:17 Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth:

This scripture not only addresses actions, but attitude; don't be secretly smug or happy about it when your enemy makes a mistake or "falls."

Galatians 6:1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.

Our response should be rather to restore such a person in a spirit of meekness, knowing that we're all made of the same fallible flesh.

Further, don't do anything that would put an obstacle in a person's way to recovery, rehabilitation or repentance.

Be a hand reaching out, not the foot pressing a person's head to the floor.

This is beautiful and so well stated that I would be interested in hearing you say more on the topic. Well done!
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This is beautiful and so well stated that I would be interested in hearing you say more on the topic. Well done!


Good grief, it wasn't THAT good. Do you have a crush on her or what?
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Good grief, it wasn't THAT good. Do you have a crush on her or what?


REpulsive. I won't even dignify that with a response.
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REpulsive. I won't even dignify that with a response.

Touchy, touchy. Just thought I'd ask. I've mostly been reading lately and haven't posted much. My intention was to stay silent for a few more weeks, but all I've been reading today is how great you think Miss Brat is.
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Good grief, it wasn't THAT good. Do you have a crush on her or what?

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Well, for goodness sakes, every time you post something, OldPathsII shows up and acts like you've just written out the theory of relativity. I couldn't help but notice.
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I think what would be interesting is a discussion about mercy and how a church that is extremely strict can apply mercy so that it doesn't come off as judgmental and talking behind people's backs. Personally, I have never seen one without the other. I have seen a handful of people able to practice this.
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What should our response be, as Christians, when someone fails?

Proverbs 24:17 Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth:

This scripture not only addresses actions, but attitude; don't be secretly smug or happy about it when your enemy makes a mistake or "falls."

Galatians 6:1 Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.

Our response should be rather to restore such a person in a spirit of meekness, knowing that we're all made of the same fallible flesh.

Further, don't do anything that would put an obstacle in a person's way to recovery, rehabilitation or repentance.

Be a hand reaching out, not the foot pressing a person's head to the floor.
You are right, of course.

However, when you have been horribly hurt by the one who has fallen it's very hard not to want vengeance.

I know that is not politically or theologically correct, but it's the truth.

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