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Old 08-15-2012, 01:14 PM
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Church Ownership

Who owns the local church?

The people? The board? The denomination? The pastor?

I ask because there is a train of thought that asks people who disagree with the pastor to leave the church.
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:16 PM
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Re: Church Ownership

Legally? It depends on the bylaws. Otherwise? God does, ultimately, and His laws apply.

What does His Word say about submitting to authorities?

I would leave to keep MY conscience clear; not for any other reason. Would you keep attending a church while openly disobeying church guidelines? And if so, for what purpose?
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:19 PM
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Re: Church Ownership

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Legally? It depends on the bylaws. Otherwise? God does, ultimately, and His laws apply.

What does His Word say about submitting to authorities?

I would leave to keep MY conscience clear; not for any other reason. Would you keep attending a church while openly disobeying church guidelines? And if so, for what purpose?
I am pretty sure he is asking who owns the building and physical assets. The answer to that is whatever the name of the non-profit entity is.
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:20 PM
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Legally? It depends on the bylaws. Otherwise? God does, ultimately, and His laws apply.

What does His Word say about submitting to authorities?

I would leave to keep MY conscience clear; not for any other reason. Would you keep attending a church while openly disobeying church guidelines? And if so, why and for what purpose?
The pastor has no authority outside of God's Word. He has no right to teach personal preferences. I would consider removing the pastor if he was teaching preferences.

Individuals and families invest thousands of dollars and decades of their lives into a local church only to have a new pastor move in with a wild hair.

It's not right to ask them to leave just because he goes off his rocker.
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:25 PM
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The pastor has no authority outside of God's Word. He has no right to teach personal preferences. I would consider removing the pastor if he was teaching preferences.

Individuals and families invest thousands of dollars and decades of their lives into a local church only to have a new pastor move in with a wild hair.

It's not right to ask them to leave just because he goes off his rocker.
The wild card here is that there are so many interpretations of scripture, that a pastor may feel he is teaching the scripture exactly the way it was intended. For every scripture, there are a hundred different interpretations.....evidenced by the fact that there are over 38,000 denominations in the world, stemming from the same Bible.
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Old 08-15-2012, 01:53 PM
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The pastor has no authority outside of God's Word. He has no right to teach personal preferences. I would consider removing the pastor if he was teaching preferences.

Individuals and families invest thousands of dollars and decades of their lives into a local church only to have a new pastor move in with a wild hair.

It's not right to ask them to leave just because he goes off his rocker.
People shouldn't be asked to leave over disagreement. When my husband disallowed the husband in that family membership....temporarily, just until he could figure out what was going on with the finances, he did not ask these people to leave. Their response? Tell everyone my husband was picking and choosing who could and could not be members and try to get the district superintendent to have a pastoral vote of confidence. Something the DS did not do because they didn't have enough backing.

So, being asked to leave because of abuse is a good reason, I think. But not for disagreement.
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Legally? It depends on the bylaws. Otherwise? God does, ultimately, and His laws apply.

What does His Word say about submitting to authorities?

I would leave to keep MY conscience clear; not for any other reason. Would you keep attending a church while openly disobeying church guidelines? And if so, for what purpose?
Except my clear conscience is not dependent on "obeying" absolutely each and every church "guideline". I think we owe it to ourselves and our brethren to be open and honest concerning views. Fellowship should not hinge on perfect uniformity.
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Except my clear conscience is not dependent on "obeying" absolutely each and every church "guideline". I think we owe it to ourselves and our brethren to be open and honest concerning views. Fellowship should not hinge on perfect uniformity.
I think Miss B. is speaking within reason. For example, if someone did not at all believe in standards and the pastor did it wouldn't make much sense to stick around. I think the main thing is do you agree mostly?
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I think Miss B. is speaking within reason. For example, if someone did not at all believe in standards and the pastor did it wouldn't make much sense to stick around. I think the main thing is do you agree mostly?
I disagree. We have many in our church like this... going to guess maybe 20%.

Standards are not salvific in nature, so it would be a mistake to break fellowship due to a different conclusion in the same matters.

Just reread what you wrote... "did not at all believe"... that is subjective I suppose. Pretty much everyone believes in some I think.
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I disagree. We have many in our church like this... going to guess maybe 20%.

Standards are not salvific in nature, so it would be a mistake to break fellowship due to a different conclusion in the same matters.

Just reread what you wrote... "did not at all believe"... that is subjective I suppose. Pretty much everyone believes in some I think.
I see what you are saying. I also think Miss B has a point. I think the point is to have a balance about it. Many UPC churches do believe that standards are salvific, even if they say they are not. I would have loved to have been part of a church that did NOT believe standards were salvific, who did NOT say things like "Oh she is backslid, she cut her hair". (Really? If standards are not salvific, what difference does cutting her hair make?) Anyway, many, many UPC churches at least practice standards as salvific, making a huge division between those who keep them and those who do not. It causes those who do not keep them to be second class and often resentful which can cause issues. It can also cause resentment from the pastor if those who do not believe in them are vocal about it.
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