For Adam was first formed, then Eve;
And it was not Adam who was deceived, but [the] woman who was deceived and deluded and fell into transgression.
This is the reason the apostle claimed that women could not lead men.
Since all we see is ministry as one pulpit with a man only speaking in one direction with no Q&A most of the time, we miss how the ancient people taught their students. In
Genesis 3:1-5 we see a type of Socratic method being used. The serpent becomes pupil, and the woman becomes teacher. Where everything goes wrong is when the student refutes the teacher, and the teacher has no answer to refute student, but ends up giving into information the student presents. Therefore the leadership job is upon the man, not his wife.