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MissBrattified 12-30-2013 02:58 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
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Originally Posted by ILG (Post 1294845)
It not only misses the mark in failing to address it, but appears (and is) blatantly hypocritical to those who struggle with the sins/lifestyles that are being preached against while those who are accepted in the church are possible gluttons.

I feel like you're trying to force me to use the *H* word. :D :heeheehee

Abiding Now 12-30-2013 03:02 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
Pro 23:2..  ..And put a knife to thy throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.

MissBrattified 12-30-2013 03:04 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
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Originally Posted by Abiding Now (Post 1294852)
Pro 23:2..  ..And put a knife to thy throat, if thou be a man given to appetite.

Strong words. :blink

ILG 12-30-2013 03:38 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 1294850)
I feel like you're trying to force me to use the *H* word. :D :heeheehee

Sorry, not sure what you mean. ;) (???)

easygo 12-30-2013 03:41 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
thanks for the prospective.. Your right, many times sinners do look at you with a microscope.
I was told, if your full, and still keep eating just to be eating, this is what is sin.
Also I didn't want to hurt anyones feelings, yes, many people can be over weight and eat like a bird.
The illustration was just the words he said. Not intended to judge others.

MissBrattified 12-30-2013 04:40 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ILG (Post 1294862)
Sorry, not sure what you mean. ;) (???)

*Hypocrite*

ILG 12-30-2013 05:02 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
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Originally Posted by MissBrattified (Post 1294871)
*Hypocrite*

Oh. Well, of course I am not trying to force you to say anything!! But the word is the right one here. I said it myself. ;)

MissBrattified 12-30-2013 05:22 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by ILG (Post 1294876)
Oh. Well, of course I am not trying to force you to say anything!! But the word is the right one here. I said it myself. ;)

I know it is. :) At the very least, it's the right word to describe the fervor in addressing addictions like drugs and alcohol versus the complete lack of attention paid to food addiction/overeating.

I thought about what I said earlier on the thread about approaching gluttony with compassion and understanding for the "complicating" issues, and I realized that any effective approach to addiction does that. When people struggle with alcoholism, for instance, you can't simply say "Stop drinking" and leave it at that. Addicts have to completely change their lifestyle to support their new choice, or they will lapse right back into the addiction. The alcohol has to be removed from their environment, the places they hang out have to change, and relationships that are destructive or enabling may even have to be cut off. There are family and community systems (including in the church) that support gluttony in the very same way that others support alcohol addiction. Family members who are always trying to feed you sugary, fatty foods, family time that centers around eating, socializing that's all about food, etc. We would be shocked if the church served alcohol to people struggling with addiction to alcohol, but no one seems to care if obese people are presented with huge arrays of unhealthy food and encouraged to eat it.

It is a huge problem, NPI.

shazeep 12-31-2013 10:21 AM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
Sister Alvear, I'm curious if any of those 'treatments' involved climbing stairs...

mendybug 10-10-2018 02:31 PM

Re: committing suicide with a fork
 
Isaiah 11:3


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