obama was visiting a 5th grade class and he asked them to define a tragedy. one little boy said if my brother fell off a farm tractor and was killed that would be a tragedy. no he said that would be an accident, anyone else? the next student said if a school bus rolled over and 42 kids were killed that would be a tragedy. no said obama that would be a great loss. no one said anything for awhile, then a hand went up from the back and another student said well if a plane was flying with both you and your wife on it when it was hit by a missile killing you both that would be a tragedy. obama was stunned for a minute and he said well, explain how you came to that decision. easy said the boy it wouldnt be a great loss and i doubt it would be an accident either