Sadly, too many men don't understand that. Sadly, they put more thought and planning into hunting and fishing trips than building a friendship with a lady.
Gents...are you listening?
Aquila,
I guess I am single because I am so choosey, but the worst thing a man can do is ask me for a date, show up, and ask me what I want to do...at that point I want to say...you go home and I'll watch a movie and each ice cream because you aren't the one and no use wasting my time
Just being truthful here!
But in my opinion, if you're a guy and putting more thought into those things than how to understand your girlfriend or wife...there's going to be a "playa" that's going to cause you some grief down the line when he has her and you don't.
I agree. Just messin!!
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Bro Chris we have totally disagreed on everything but I do indeed say I have to agree with you on so many things you have said here on this thread
Good job!
Hey, thanks.
Just sharing some insight from my BC days regarding friendship, relationships, getting to know a woman, and yes...getting that first kiss. If you plan it right, she'll never forget it.
And learning how to give a back rub and how to use feathers doesn't hurt either.
making plans for a date...tells one that your a provider...its that simple.
My wife is always pleased when i say...Honey...we are going to (restaurant) to eat friday night and then to see (whatever movie she has been talking about). Its just a simple way of showing you can make decisions and follow through.
making plans for a date...tells one that your a provider...its that simple.
My wife is always pleased when i say...Honey...we are going to (restaurant) to eat friday night and then to see (whatever movie she has been talking about). Its just a simple way of showing you can make decisions and follow through.
Hallelujah - a man that gets it..do you have a friend my age who thinks like you?
I guess I am single because I am so choosey, but the worst thing a man can do is ask me for a date, show up, and ask me what I want to do...at that point I want to say...you go home and I'll watch a movie and each ice cream because you aren't the one and no use wasting my time
Just being truthful here!
Rhoni
Rhoni, it's good to be choosy.
It sounds like you're looking for a man...not a boy.
Hallelujah - a man that gets it..do you have a friend my age who thinks like you?
Its amazing Rhoni, but I have felt the need to pray for you and your future husband (whomever he is). So here goes...
Father,
You are just soooooooo awesome. And soooooo loving. I cannot tell you how wonderful you are! Its just amazing that we can come to your throne and sit at your feet and tell you whats on our hearts.
I know in my spirit you have a wonderful man for Rhoni. One who "gets it".
I just ask you right now to reveal him to her in your time, place a hedge of protection around them and the relationship that has already started, even if they have not met yet. I know you will be the foundation of that relationship and will bless them far beyond thier expectations. And, for all this we thank you, and give you all glory!!!
In Jesus Name
I figure that for now, I'm just concentrating on the raising of my kids, the start of my career, the continuation of my education, and then in about 20 years, when both knees have been replaced and I no longer want to be a floor nurse, I'll semi-retire and find a companion to travel the world with.
Having been burned twice, I just wonder if there are any good men left who are single and middle aged.
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making plans for a date...tells one that your a provider...its that simple.
My wife is always pleased when i say...Honey...we are going to (restaurant) to eat friday night and then to see (whatever movie she has been talking about). Its just a simple way of showing you can make decisions and follow through.
Thats right Bro and how it should be!
Now there are indeed times that I go to him and say hey I want to go to such n such place to eat.. then we go there but normally its his choosing for our date night and I love that! I can go out whenever I want to the other places normally but I want him to make it something special when he takes me out somewhere!
I am horrible because I do not remember the name of the place but there is this totally awesome place in OKC that has food to die for! One night out of the blue he had told me to get dressed up we were going out... it was about 6 on a Sun night (we had afternoon services) and a limo showed up... he took me out to eat and presented me with a new wedding band he had gotten me since the one he got me when we married was just not what he wanted to get me but was unable at that time to do what he wanted..then took me down to see some beautifully decorated areas for the holidays and we just spent the evening with each other sharing my favorite time of the year and the beautiful scenery and snow which I love!
Its amazing Rhoni, but I have felt the need to pray for you and your future husband (whomever he is). So here goes...
Father,
You are just soooooooo awesome. And soooooo loving. I cannot tell you how wonderful you are! Its just amazing that we can come to your throne and sit at your feet and tell you whats on our hearts.
I know in my spirit you have a wonderful man for Rhoni. One who "gets it".
I just ask you right now to reveal him to her in your time, place a hedge of protection around them and the relationship that has already started, even if they have not met yet. I know you will be the foundation of that relationship and will bless them far beyond thier expectations. And, for all this we thank you, and give you all glory!!!
In Jesus Name