How to get over the Greatest Hurt

[Michael Phelps]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

Renda,

It doesn't matter whether you agree or not. Nor is it your concern what I tell others...I told it here on AFF so obviously I told it as I see it to be.

You have made it your concern to speak from a perspective that you know all the answers on this forum. You state that it is to 'stir up conversation' but I think that you need to be careful to not set yourself up as the all wise all knowing wisdom of AFF. The only place to go from the top is down.

Rhoni

Seriously? Is this TIC, I hope?????

[Dora]

Too much!

[Dora]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

There is no getting over hurt...just learning to deal with it and know eventually God will use it for ministry.

Blessings, Rhoni

Seriously...counseling from the Christian perspective??? Can't believe you posted this...really????

[Jack Shephard]

Has it been mentioned about in the 8 pages here about David Fuller's message "Wounds that Never Heal"?

[Timmy]

Originally Posted by JTULLOCK

Has it been mentioned about in the 8 pages here about David Fuller's message "Wounds that Never Heal"?

Somebody plagiarized it, yeah.

[Timmy]

Originally Posted by Timmy

Somebody plagiarized it, yeah.

(Actually, no. I was J/K, 100%. )

[seguidordejesus]

She's baaaack!!!

[Dora]

Originally Posted by seguidordejesus

She's baaaack!!!

Ok. Who's baaaack?????

[mizpeh]

God binds up the brokenhearted.

[missourimary]

Originally Posted by mizpeh

God binds up the brokenhearted.

Sure He does. But there are things that we need to do, too, to heal. And generally the answer is not the pat, "forgive and forget" or "just get over it."

I have a book about forgiveness. Very well written. And it speaks very deliberately against "forgive and forget". Because if we just forget and go on with a person as though nothing happened, and they did something deliberately to hurt, we are enabling them to hurt us again, and to hurt others as well. On the other hand, there is a Biblical way to forgive that has nothing to do with forgetting, but more to do with letting go of our right to be bitter and/or vengeful about what a person did.

I can be angry about what someone did, I can be upset, I can cry and grieve a loss of innocence and trust toward someone... all without being unforgiving.