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Originally Posted by Felicity
I've always thot that once you were born again you became the bride. Isn't that what Song of Songs is about? It's at least in part a poetic analogy of the relationship between Christ and the church?
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Levels of relationship are clearly understood in scripture. Here is a good example among many:
Jhn 15:15 Henceforth
I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth:
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but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father
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I have made known unto you.
If I were commissioned to build the Sears Tower or a replacement to the WTC. Would I call a grunt laborer in to show them my plans? No, I would call my friends in to rejoice with me as I rolled out my plans on a large conference table. Together, we would rejoice, especially if they were going to give me the top floor for building it. LOL...
Neither would I call some of my disciples in. I would not call anyone in to rejoice with me that did not have that special relationship with me. Here, Jesus is underscoring the importance of the various levels of relationship that are developed over time and trails of testings.
True friends are developed over many years. I know that there are some that would love to be my friend. I would never allow them to be no more than an acquaintenance though I might call them "friend." There are those that I would like to have a true friendship relationship with, but I undestand that it will never likely happen at all. Why? I have not had the occassion or time to prove to them my worth as a friend.
Typically, a man can live a life time but in death, he would be highly blessed if he had more than 5 or at the most 10 really true, faithful and proven friends. Even then, it is possible that one might prove to be untrue. There is little hurt as great as receiving those wounds in the house of your "friends."
While we may elevate from one relationship to another, we never forget our earlier relationships. Paul prided himself as the "servant of the Lord Jesus Christ." Though a brother to the Lord, he was proud to label himself as a servant. Though a friend, I am still a dumb sheep, following the great Shepherd of the sheep. We never forget our earlier relationships nor do we abandon them.
To have the relationship as bride/wife, one must make themselves ready. I want to make myself ready and prepared for such intimacy with him which can only be accomplished by being an "overcomer in all things."