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02-16-2009, 03:43 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
I walked hunched over because I'm afraid I might tease a man.
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Emma is a ficticious Amish character and ILG is her real person counterpart.
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02-16-2009, 03:45 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by Emma Bontrager
I walked hunched over because I'm afraid I might tease a man.
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Don't hunch too far over 
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02-16-2009, 03:45 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Yes, but women should not be allowed out of the house because men look and then things happen to them even if you are covered from head to toe. They rape women in Burkha countries who show and ankle and it's the fault of the stupid women who should have kept covered. We are way too ommidest here, even us Amish. An arm around the back during a movie on a couch is WAY too much for any man. They are simply too weak.
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I know you're being facetious, but surely you don't think I feel that men are too weak to be moral? Do you agree that we shouldn't lead men on? Not because I will be at fault if he misbehaves, but because it is disingenuous and inconsiderate on MY part.
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I like it but not because I'm turned on.  |
Obviously I understand the concept of nonsexual affection, Emma. Rhoni is talking about a man she is presumably attracted to and/or in love with (HER definition of "lover"), so I would reasonably assume that neck nuzzling is or could easily become sexual. 
In that respect, I think it unfair to play sexually with a man, call it "cuddling", and then act like he's at fault if he gets turned on. Understanding of course, that what is "affectionate" for a woman can be "sexual" for a man.
Aren't these rudimentary concepts?
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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02-16-2009, 03:46 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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02-16-2009, 03:50 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
They/counselors teach it in the schools. And when God forgives he casts it into the sea of forgetfulness as far as the east is from the west...therefore what I said makes perfect sense to me.
Thank God for second chances 
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I see what you are saying, BUT the virgin term cannot logically apply - you have children, Rhoni. I know you're name is NOT Mary. 
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02-16-2009, 03:51 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by Emma Bontrager
I walked hunched over because I'm afraid I might tease a man.
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Some men might like that, Emma!!!!
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02-16-2009, 03:51 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by rgcraig
Don't hunch too far over |
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02-16-2009, 03:55 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
I see what you are saying, BUT the virgin term cannot logically apply - you have children, Rhoni. I know you're name is NOT Mary. |
Well, If I can't be a virgin again then I might as well cuddle 
Hummm....
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02-16-2009, 03:56 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
Well, If I can't be a virgin again then I might as well cuddle
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Define cuddle. 
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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02-16-2009, 03:57 PM
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Re: Living Arrangements
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Well, If I can't be a virgin again then I might as well cuddle
Hummm.... |
Okay, we are now back to square one!!!!!! 
How long can an unmarried couple cuddle?!!!!!!! That's just not working for me. AND, since you are here - what do you mean by touching. What is a touch to you?
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