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Old 04-21-2008, 02:59 PM
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Old 04-21-2008, 04:21 PM
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Newman, have you read this thread? Thoughts?

Looks to me like there is much demand for children's advocates in Texas...
Well Stephen Hoover this is turning into one of the longest threads I have ever initiated. I would hate to have a chilling effect on the conversation or alternatively get more involved in the thread than I have time for right now.

It is fair to say I have mixed emotions and various posts have done a fine job expressing some of my thoughts. Other ideas haven't been fullly explored yet as far as I can tell...

1. The images that flash in my mind are a mixture of scenes from "The Village" where those growing up therein had no idea of outside life and stories of the Holacast in which children were ripped from their mother's arms in what would have had to be as emotionally terrifying as one can imagine.

2. Alternatively, I am also reminded of the cult that drank the koolaid when they were scrutinized from outside sources.

3. Consequently, I am not convinced that Texas should have rushed in there full blazes without a more coesive plan in place first.

4. For goodness sake, Texas has been sending welfare payments to many of these mothers for a long time. Surely they could have shut off the money or tied it to some programing designed to protect the kids and verify their well being instead of SUDDENLY attempting to take their kids away FOREVER which is what termination of parental rights does.

5. I see parental rights being trampled as Texas seemingly throws spagetti against the wall to see what sticks in judging the many by the few cases they might be able to prove.

6. Individual mothers (some who knew nothing else) should not be held responsible for the underage marriages that took place unless it was their own children. This is ludicrous!

7. And I would pray for grace to those mothers who could legitimately be charged with "failure to protect." Were they not themselves victims? Shouldn't the state of Texas attempt to reabilitate these parents instead of automatically speaking of terminating their rights?

8. Furthermore, I can't imagine that anyone is so comfortable that they would have no problem with CPS asking their children questions about their parenting skills outside their presence knowing those asking the questions are bound and determined to find abuse lest they look like idiots for how they have already handled things.

9. What ideas are being implanted as this is going on on such a large scale basis to a group of children all the more traumatized because they have no experience with the outside world?

10. And yes, I understand this is about sex abuse and not specifically religious freedom. HOWEVER, the reality of these protective proceedings happening to a group of people based on so little information (which initially would have implicated only two sets of parents is hard to imagine).

11. I leave you with this thought expressed about how the German people gave their rights up bit by bit as the Nazis came to power.

"First they came for the Jews, and I didn't speak out - because I was not a Jew. Then they came for the Communists, and I did not speak out -because I was not a Communist. Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out -because I was not a trade unionist. Then they came for me and there was no one left to speak for me!" -Pastor Niemoller

So carry on.... I have about used up my quota of time for this week!
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Old 04-21-2008, 08:36 PM
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If I could delete the post above; I would remove it so that the conversation would continue (or alternatively spell Holocaust correctly)...
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Old 04-21-2008, 08:48 PM
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Thanks Newman! You bring some balance that is thrown aside by some who (perhaps from their own experience) are emotionally charged in this thread.

I agree with your sentiments - and especially # 5,6,8,10.

Just an hour ago I was talking to an Old Order Mennonite friend about the movie "The Village".


Perhaps we should spell that, "Holycost".
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Old 04-21-2008, 08:57 PM
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When we adopted our oldest son he was 3 1/2 years old. He had been removed from his birth mother at 6 WEEKS of age. But it took that long to get parental rights terminated.

I can't for the life of me believe (or understand) how they can say they're going to terminate parental rights for these mother's just like that (*snap*)

Don't they have to offer them parenting classes, time to change their ways, etc. etc.?

I'm not saying what was done to these children is ok. NOT AT ALL! I'm just concerned with the way things are being done.
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When we adopted our oldest son he was 3 1/2 years old. He had been removed from his birth mother at 6 WEEKS of age. But it took that long to get parental rights terminated.

I can't for the life of me believe (or understand) how they can say they're going to terminate parental rights for these mother's just like that (*snap*)

Don't they have to offer them parenting classes, time to change their ways, etc. etc.?

I'm not saying what was done to these children is ok. NOT AT ALL! I'm just concerned with the way things are being done.
The quest for the termination of parental rights concerns me greatly as a parent.
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So carry on.... I have about used up my quota of time for this week!
BTW... I ain't buying the "my quota" line! Most of us are BUSY people.

Fact is we need you here.

So hang out a little more, won't you?

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Old 04-21-2008, 09:31 PM
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When we adopted our oldest son he was 3 1/2 years old. He had been removed from his birth mother at 6 WEEKS of age. But it took that long to get parental rights terminated.

I can't for the life of me believe (or understand) how they can say they're going to terminate parental rights for these mother's just like that (*snap*)

Don't they have to offer them parenting classes, time to change their ways, etc. etc.?

I'm not saying what was done to these children is ok. NOT AT ALL! I'm just concerned with the way things are being done.
Margie, think about it, they cannot do it that fast. Too many kids, they have to go case by case. Some parents with more than one child may lose all of their kids. But they still have to prove abuse.
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Margie, think about it, they cannot do it that fast. Too many kids, they have to go case by case. Some parents with more than one child may lose all of their kids. But they still have to prove abuse.
Ummm....one would hope so.

However, if its similar to my state; Texas would have had to have shown that there was probable cause of neglect or abuse to remove the children from their parents' custody in the first place.

It's beyond my comprehension that they were able to individually find probable cause against each mother in the sect.

Consequently, I am not so certain that Texas can deliver fair trials; especially considering the trauma and publicity that already surround this case.

The normal practice (that I am familiar with) is to ask kids questions first (without mom and dad there). Then separate them from their parents if the answers given or facts known warrant it. But taking custody of the child before asking questions shocks me.

Give me a week and I think I could ask enough questions of young children already traumatized by their new environment and forcefully and unexpectedly separated from their parents to implant serious doubt, confusion and perhaps even false memories in the chldren.

This is scary....
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Old 04-21-2008, 10:43 PM
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BTW... I ain't buying the "my quota" line! Most of us are BUSY people.

Fact is we need you here.

So hang out a little more, won't you?

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Naw...you actually do quite well without my 2 cents. My schedule isn't nearly as flexible as it once was.
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