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01-09-2011, 11:09 PM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
The sad thing is, many still don't report rape. Because there is always in the back of your mind, no one will believe me, or I brought it on myself. Rape is NOT about sex, it's about power and violence against another person.
To muddy this topic is a horrible disservice to victims of rape.
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Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
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01-09-2011, 11:10 PM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
And it didn't matter if the woman had set out to have sex or not. Respecting one another includes the right to change their mind.
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01-09-2011, 11:19 PM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
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And it didn't matter if the woman had set out to have sex or not. Respecting one another includes the right to change their mind.
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Exactly.
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If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV
Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
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01-09-2011, 11:24 PM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
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Originally Posted by DAII
I think he feels many young ladies or older ladies will claim rape to cover for their promiscuity?
I would be more careful with this type of rhetoric ... a consenting encounter could turn into rape ...
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Always find it interesting there is no real credence given to boys being raped by older women.
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01-09-2011, 11:49 PM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
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Always find it interesting there is no real credence given to boys being raped by older women.
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I find it just as horrifying. The emotional scarring that the young men must feel.
Women can be child molesters and rapists. It is still about power and/or control. Some of the time it's someone with authority, or an authority figure.
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If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV
Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
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01-10-2011, 12:04 AM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
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Originally Posted by Cindy
I find it just as horrifying. The emotional scarring that the young men must feel.
Women can be child molesters and rapists. It is still about power and/or control. Some of the time it's someone with authority, or an authority figure.
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True. I know it's not as prevalent. But it does happen.
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"It is inhumane, in my opinion, to force people who have a genuine medical need for coffee to wait in line behind people who apparently view it as some kind of recreational activity." Dave Barry 2005
I am a firm believer in the Old Paths
Articles on such subjects as "The New Birth," will be accepted, whether they teach that the new birth takes place before baptism in water and Spirit, or that the new birth consists of baptism of water and Spirit. - THE PENTECOSTAL HERALD Dec. 1945
"It is doubtful if any Trinitarian Pentecostals have ever professed to believe in three gods, and Oneness Pentecostals should not claim that they do." - Daniel Segraves
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01-10-2011, 12:08 AM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
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Originally Posted by Hoovie
True. I know it's not as prevalent. But it does happen.
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It does, and I think it warps the victims views of what a relationship is about.
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If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV
Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
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01-10-2011, 12:14 AM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
I have heard preachers come close to preaching this.
They would use the Old Testament to justify the teaching.
The part where if she doesn't cry out in the city, then it was consensual.
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01-10-2011, 12:31 AM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
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Originally Posted by aegsm76
I have heard preachers come close to preaching this.
They would use the Old Testament to justify the teaching.
The part where if she doesn't cry out in the city, then it was consensual.
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But this goes right back to the heart of why some women don't report rape. It makes them feel ashamed, that they are somehow to blame. Because we were taught that for years. It is not about what you wear, where you are, or what you are doing.
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If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV
Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
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01-10-2011, 03:07 AM
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Re: LS: " I don't buy all this rape business "
I believe that it is every parents duty to somehow make sure their child knows what to do if these circumstances occur.
We have to do a better job of educating our children.
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